Please help guys, so important.

Guys; there is this girl from my class, I really like her. But I have a problem with one of her girlfriends (we were friends once, but no more. Shes like evil. I dont like her, she dont likes me). Because of that, I have no chance to get close to my girl (I mean like drinking some coffee in college). But I have her number, because we're in the same whtsapp group (a group for everyone in our class). Once, we had a small talk from whtsapp, just asking about some lesson, nothing more.
I followed her on instgram, she followed me back. But thats very normal I think, cs were in the same class and know eachother.
+ I dont know if she has a boyfriend
I'm so desperate guys, what should I do? Please help me, I dont want to stay platonic, I don't want to lose her. If she has no boyfriend, anytime she can get one and that would be total end for me. I have to get to action right now.
Waiting for your advices, but this is an emergency. I need you guys right now.

 

Man thanks a lot for your advice, but if she doesn't, ım done. Everybody, even she herself would make fun of me. Were in college, you know.
And I never done something like that much fast with girls

 

Thanks a lot. Its good to hear that from someone good at this. Firstly, tomorrow I will talk to one of my pals, (he knows everyone better than me) I'll ask him if she's alone/with bf. If shes alone, if I can man up, I will ask her. Thing is, I'm not living in US (wish I could). Our culture is not like US culture. Thats why I'm so scared.

 

I wish me luck too, looks like I have to man up. I can see her on monday. I will write the results

 

thanks a lot, you got any different advices bro?

 

You're completely right. I actually don't care if she rejects me, after that; I'll still be myself. It's just like, I have a place in my college. People respects me, I'm the best student in the class. People have some perspective about me, I mean they see me as a "hardworker, clever guy". I don't even say hi to all of the guys (just to ones I like as a friend), cs I don't like them, cs I'm clever; that makes them jealous about me.

What I'm trying to say is; for a guy like me, being rejected is just like losing my place in my college/community. That's all. I have things to lose, I think. But I'm not a scared wierdo.

 

Guys, I'm just scared. I think I'm just not able to talk to her. Cs I believe she's gonna reject me I mean it's obvious...

 

That's right, but she's always with her friends. I have a post in 20-24 years old section. I explained it there. Can you read it please

 

That's just being scared. Never had a girlfriend, im 20 now. So I have no experience. When I talk to her, she will think that I'm weirdo, cs I don't know how to talk to girls. Now, I don't care about what people will think, I mean if she rejects me, I will not feel shy cs of people. I'm over that. But it's to hard, I've always been alone, not so talkative. I'm trying to change, but in this age, its hard. People handled this situation when they're 15-16 in highschool. But im 20 and scared.

 

Man, Im gonna be really honest;

I just can't see myself good enough for her. Actually, I dont see myself good enough for any girl. I dont know why but thats it, being always alone made me like this. And the PMO ofc. Anytime I man up and talk to some girl; they reject me. It really sucks. That made my confidence very low.

And this girl, I'm thinking about her for almost 4 months. And never had a confidence. Last night I cried like a f**kng baby. Because i felt like im gonna fail in this girl too, and after that, in sometime, I will see her with someone else. That is always what I get.