Over two weeks no porn

Good job! You're right to be proud of yourself.

I would encourage you not to lie about your relapses to your significant others as lying plays a part in perpetuating the addiction cycle (Shame=Lying/Coverup=Withdrawel=PMO)

Keep going!

 

so you'r'e having sex with a married woman. Sorry that is just low really low.

 

Having sex with her keeps her chasing you, don't let her use you as a sex toy.

 

Putting aside your role in the probable break-up of a marriage (not judging you here, just laying things out), I agree with iphone user; she's bad news. Nothing good comes of being with a married woman, even if she's chasing you. In fact that makes her more unsavory. If she's willing to lie and cheat behind her husbands back, a man she has sworn herself to, then what chance do you stand? What do you think she'd do to you if the opportunity arose? If she's not above lying and cheating, then she's not above blackmail and extortion.

Cut all ties with her as soon as you can. Change your phone number, email, etc. Whatever you have to do, do it, and do it without explanation (she'll just try to rope you back in if you do). Just consider it a lesson learned and move on. There are plenty of honorable, attractive single chicks out there.

 

she don't want to leave her husband and become a divorced woman but stilll wants sex , but she isn't atracted to her husband anymore you are the toy for her. trust me she will not leave her man you are just a affaire.

or do you want to a girl who loves you honestlly .. A girl who makes you stronger man. you are wasting time and energy to a girl that isn't worth it. Because of that you miss out on other woman who are maybe better

 

I can't respect guys who sleep with married woman . Its her fault but you accepted her invite.

woman fall for confidence thats why she is cheating the guy has serious problems and you are profiting from the situation

thats why i never have sex with a woman who has a boyfriend,or husband because i know woman fall for confidence and the guy probably has some problems..

 

Hey man its up to you here. At this point it sounds to me like you're making excuses to stay with her. If you want to, then stay. If you don't, cut the cord.

This situation is rotten from the start. She is not innocent and neither are you. Like kingpietro said, you are profiting from the misery of another man. If you're okay with that then we have nothing further to discuss.

 

Not to be judgmental but I’d you truly wanted to break up with her you could. It’s your choice.

 

This is going to be confronting post but i do it to help you.

You are using her for sex, affection because you don't feel good about you'rself.. You need the affection , sex

i advise you to built real confidence : being happy without approval affection of someone else.

Lose her and start picking you're life together. you don't love her you are just using her for affection because you are also struggling with porn start becoming self provident by not needing sex, affection of a woman.

the reason why you can't let her go isn't because you love her but because you need the sex, the touching of a woman and so on if you lose it you might feel bad and relapse thats what you thinx. You don't have the confidence.

once you are self provided financially and emotionally you will find happiness it also makes nofap easier if you don't want approval constantly.

I used to be like you i was a player who had sex with married woman but i all did it so i felt good and happy now i am happy and single .

 

Yes it will. You are in a codependent relationship. Google it and realize that you are in a very unhealthy relationship.

 

Straight up man I should consider having a girlfriend. After getting ditched by my first girlfriend 8 years ago I just plunged into this act alone. Thanks

 

You don’t need anyone. You need to work on yourself first. And judging by your actions, you have a lot of self-growth that needs to take place before you can ever hope to find a healthy relationship with a woman. This is NOT it. Yes, NoFap is tough, but you using this girl for sex (as well as allowing yourself to be used for it) and the context of the situation you’re in is not fulfilling the purpose that NoFap is supposed to fulfill in the first place. It is about growing into the best version of yourself and establishing healthy relationships with others. Ask yourself this question: what is healthy about the situation you’re in with this girl?