One word of encouragement

I know where a lot of you guys are at, re: love.

I was lonely, I sought desperately for the female validation.
It was slow to come, in the mere trickle, which was the best of it.
The only way, it seemed to get that validation, was at a concierge desk...

The good news is that the reboot solves all of this.
When you get through the fiery pains of the first 30 days,
where the devil stabs you at random with a hot poker,
you'll have enough momentum to get to the day 90.

The day 90 is going to be a different world.
You stared down the demons in the face.
You fought this inner battle.
Nobody could do it for you, you did it using the one tool:
sheer determination.

This is a serious achievement, and it comes with serious benefits.
Watch your new life open up around you.
Deep in the reboot, opportunity doesn't just knock, it rings the bell,
and breaks in through a window.

I can't promise any one thing will happen,
except that this new momentum is going to put your life
somewhere way better.
This up-leveling calls out to the female in an automatic way.

The dating coaches and players all fail in the face of real achievement.
Some guys can fake a certain amount of confidence,
and this bravery has a limited amount of a temporary reward.
But in the end, the player never built a real foundation,
so after they get the obese desperate girl,
they have nothing and go back to the drought.

Real achievement does something to the psyche that can't be defined.
An outsider can notice certain aspects,
but the reboot changes a man's confidence.
The confidence is but a symptom.
The old mindset is replaced,
and the new paradigm is greater than the superficial view.

So if you are going to invest 90 days in getting a woman,
don't listen to dating coaches and players.
Build achievement, and you won't be playing this stupid game of logic.
If she says x, you say y.
Forget that.
You will be the guy that says what is right from a place of confidence,
power, and strength.
You'll break all the players' petty rules
and still get the girl.

Or you may find a yet better way in your space,
where you don't **need** somebody.
Which is a far better level, imho.
The Apostle Paul thought as much.

Food and drink and small insects for thought...

 

Yes, it's alarming because nobody wants to do this work, despite languishing.

But they'll learn...