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Objectively speaking, is excessive PMO bad? Is recovery just a placebo?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Fortitude42, Jan 15, 2024.

  1. Fortitude42

    Fortitude42 Fapstronaut

    I'll give my thoughts on this.

    If we were to take a look from a second-person perspective, we can see a PMO addict living a life normally.

    But I'm quite sure that's not the case. First, there are problems with energy.

    If we could see our lives in bird-eye perspective for years, we could count how many hours we've wasted time looking at the screen. Hundreds? No... even thousands is possible.

    PMO as an activity requires energy. It burns calories, leaves sweat and exhausts the body. Once or twice a month? Sure, but it's a different story for an addict for hours every day, for years.

    So, surely, the body expended more than it receives.

    Secondly, it's a matter of mental energy. Dopamine dopamine dopamine, of course, consumes resources. It doesn't come out of nowhere, it needs something to be created.
    Not only that, if one as an addict fantasizes for hours for years, the imagination used could be major strain for the brain.

    This might be the reason why there's a brain fog. Perhaps, the brain is just exhausted for the excessive dopamine.

    PMO became an essential thing like food. It occupies part of the mind where it's supposed to be filled with something. It's like an abstract cancer, slowly eating us out, a poison, drying our soul.

    Therefore, in summary, PMO brings both physical and mental strain overtime.

    This is my argument to bring the problems of PMO closer towards objectivity. This is not backed with any scientific basis, but from pure experience and logical explanation based on my knowledge.

    I'm quite sure it's not a placebo effect too, but some "superpowers" can be overexaggerated from certain biases.

    But indeed, recovering from PMO is more likely to be good than a placebo, or bad. Don't feed the cancer.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. CurseOfBinding

    CurseOfBinding Fapstronaut

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    Sounds pretty good already, although I would add that countless people have made bad life choices because of the manipulation by PMO, leading to the breakup of relationships and even marriages, missing out on opportunities, self isolation and, in some extreme cases, even suicide
     
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  3. Littlefella

    Littlefella Fapstronaut

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    PMO is 70% psychologial, 20% neurological and 10% physical damage.

    If you have a limp dick because of PMO that's the least of your problems.

    Psychological damage is so subtle and ingrained you have no idea how off the charts you are until you go clean at least 365 days. It takes years to rid wrong beliefs.
     
  4. SuperFan

    SuperFan Fapstronaut

    I feel like the question was answered with the word "excessive." :)
     
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  5. Biophage

    Biophage Fapstronaut

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    There are over 60 neuroscience studies finding that the brain changes in porn users are consistent with those of addiction, and only 2 to the contrary.
    Studies reporting findings consistent with escalation of porn use (tolerance), habituation to porn, and withdrawal symptoms - Your Brain On Porn

    There are also millions of accounts of young men who experience symptoms of addiction (PIED, desensitization, hypofrontality, loss of interest in real partners and only being aroused by a screen, etc.)

    I was a *really* bad porn addict when I was like 17/18. I watched porn for like 5 hours a day. I had all the normal symptoms of porn addiction like brain fog and poor cognitive health. But eventually I started to develop some of the more serious mental issues that you normally see in heavy drug users. I started to get hallucinations, depersonalization and derealization. I was quite literally starting to go insane. I went without porn for 6 months and it all went away. Sadly I fell back into porn, but never went back to my hours of porn per day usage.
     
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  6. kenshin81

    kenshin81 Fapstronaut

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    "Only" 6 months to recover from such huge side effects? That's great! How old are you?
     
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