NoFap + Redpill = ?

Years ago, after a traumatic breakup, I "failed" with my first attempts at new women, and ventured into the world of NoFap to further build my strength. Relationship building advice, PUA advice, and RedPill also piqued my interest....well, actually, I was in desperate need of any kind of emotional intelligence booster, masculinity assessment etc. as I was sure my previous relationship was pure luck.....

My initial dedicated run of PMO, was close to 90 days.

Shortly after my run ended, I had more success with women in a short period than ever before in my life. Something new awoken within me! Yet it was short lived, as I fell back into my PMO ways and continued to be dissatisfied sexually 90% of the time (I have Delayed Ejaculation to the point that sometimes I wonder if it's worth even having sex)

I'm currently sitting on 4 days, and once again trying to reeducate myself with RedPill knowledge. Now, it is clearly controversial in some ways, but it's smarter to fish through the plethora of information and tactics then to dismiss it outright.

How have people integrated RedPill + NoFap into their lives synonymously, with success? Which sources can you recommend.

 

I'm nearly one week now. Feeling good, trying to make the most of social situations. Also been taking St. John's Wort, as I believe I have mild signs of anxiety, though it's only during certain situations, such as being around new people.

RedPill is a movement, similar to NoFap, it specifically promotes masculinity, and helps men find their way again in the world, and develop how they perceive and react to situations that may otherwise tip regular people over the edge. It can definitely help my strength in certain areas, such as emotional intelligence, and social anxiety, approach anxiety etc.

 

Definitely. I think it's misunderstood as being an anti-feminist movement. It's more internal for me, learning to control my emotions, and therefore influencing the world around me.

Officially hit one week!

I've found though, that I get the thought to PMO from strange things at this point. I have found myself fantasizing about past lovers more, which is more healthy than pixelated strangers, I guess.

I also deleted all my P files, which was only a couple, but I found I'm prone to watching a very specific category, and have become very picky over time, as I begun consuming this type, over a decade ago. Back then, I was given free access codes to premium websites. Nowadays, P is free and everywhere, whereas it used to involve a fair bit of searching to find videos that were restricted. There is a part of the search that became mundane and repetitive, but I can certainly see the appeal for me as a teenager, into consuming it, and making playlists, I just realised that it has affected my perception of relationships in a time period when I do want to improve my sex life.

 

I'm also going to begin working out again today! It's been a while, and in the past, I usually went harder at it, when I had multiple women in my life. I must realise that everything positive in my life is for myself, and not to impress others. I'm one hell of a skinny dude, and my BMI is slightly low, so it can be a struggle to fit in sometimes, but if I focus on the fitness part of it rather than bulking, which is cumbersome and not easy to integrate into my life, I can develop my confidence moreso.

 

That's the goal.

 

I had a bump in the road today...I had multiple women messaging back and forth while at home, got excited by the prospect of getting action that night and logged on to look at P, but never engaged in actual M....the interesting thing is I felt the excitement despite no touching. The constant search was still addictive....

I'm considering it a bump in the road, but in no way a reset. Hopefully it's insight into boundaries and will help me down the road.