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Nofap gives me the urge to hit on strangers

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by NF SINCE BIRTH, May 27, 2023.

  1. On the bus, everywhere. I have strong urges to break the social norms and just start talking to any pretty girl I see. I have been hanging out with a single friend of mine recently. She is attractive but I havent hit on her ever. I guess I wanted her in the beginning but I was a PMO addict back then, unable to make a move. Now I am all over her. I dont have any romantic feelings towards her right now but I am really attracted to her. Where I before just lightly touched her arm with the back of my hand, I am now squeezing her arm tight and commenting on how soft her sweater feels. I am looking her in the eyes for half a minute at a time. No flickering sight and no fidgeting. I generally stay a lot closer and I have a more open body language. And she responds to it. Some of it is probably also subconcious. I have to restrict myself from just picking her up and squeezing her way too hard for comfort. I think she senses that even though I am making pretty serious advances, I am still holding myself back. I dont know why I do. Habit maybe. But my sex drive will eventually surface and I suspect I cant be just friends with attractive women anymore because of nofap.
     
  2. FormerLeatherneck

    FormerLeatherneck Fapstronaut

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    Well isn’t that a good thing? I mean for these guys that stay in their room fapping multiple times a day they will have absolutely no desire to go out and talk to real women because “their goose is cooked” literally.
     
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  3. Jakele8

    Jakele8 New Fapstronaut

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    How much time did it take to get at that point?
     
  4. FormerLeatherneck

    FormerLeatherneck Fapstronaut

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    This will depend on how much of an addicted Coomer someone is.
     
  5. Jakele8

    Jakele8 New Fapstronaut

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    Ayt i’ll he patient lol
     
  6. Amalenny

    Amalenny Fapstronaut

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    Well, update? Did you hit on the girls or did you got stuck in your head? I also would like to hit on strangers, but God knows how or what to say. I never seen anyone do it (sober, in public I mean) so can't really take notes.
     
  7. Chavin1811

    Chavin1811 Fapstronaut

    Same happened for me. It took about 5 days when a cute girl I passed by at Disney World smiled at me.
     

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