Nofap - Changing life slowly

Im 61 days nofap, I have come out of flatline and now my urge to fap and my libido start to come very strongly.

But slowly, I can control them, I can ignore those urges more easily now and it is a process developing slowly and I think there is where I willl end up finally.

Its like climbing a mountain, and now you are seeing the tip (now i can see where i will end up with this nofap journey).

I will have urges but i will be able to ignore them and my libido will be under my control completely. And I can focus on other things aswell.

Sex and libido will be then just a part of life not what you obsess over, I will be confident enough that i will not have ED or PIED with a woman but still i will be able to control my libido.

And i will be confident enough that if im with a woman, i will have no problem having sex with her because of ed or pied, it is all about keeping your sexuality and libido under the control of your mind and not let mind control your libido. Life will be so much easier.

Till now in my journey i have seen i dont enjoy porn anymore, although if i see i still feel good but now my urge is to do something with a real woman, now i want that loving touch and real intimacy not this fake computer screen shit.

Thats how you become beta male, anything else you guys want to add that I will achieve after my nofap journey?

 

Thanks j, Sensitivity is far more than it used to be, i guess the time you don't pmo, the nerves in your penis heal from the deathgrip of masturbation for years, so the nerves heals and the sensitivity is increased.

And sensitivity to any thing is directly related to not touching it at all, the more you not touch your penis the more sensitive it is going to be .

Urge is related to dopamine craving, libido is related to testosterone.

Urge is when your are sitting idle in your room, or infront of your computer or laying in your bed you feel you want to fap, thats urge for dopamine not libido.

Libido is when you are with a woman and you get a boner while touching her or when making eye contact with her, thats your true libido.

 

@I_Give_Up you will reach to that stage just keep resisting the urges,
let your will win over your brain and your brain will surrender to you sooner than later.
Your brain will re-wire itself in a way that you wont feel the need to fap or do pmo at all.
But dont be weak at this point of time because your brain is taking orders from you right now,
if your oders are weak , your brain will still give you urges and hope you give in.
if your orders are strong and strong will power - your brain will submit to you and then it will re-wire according to your will and then urges will not be there and if its there, you can dismiss it within a second.