Hi guys, I’m new to here, a bit nervous, heard about NoFap through a friend, decided to give it a go as I was fapping too much and couldn’t see an end to it. Problem is I have a foot/shoe fetish, my Mrs is accommodating with this which is nice (and she loves to buy shoes) but only every now and then if I ask, she won’t offer, and during sex if I ask. We haven’t had sex since November, so the porn has been keeping me going, but it makes me unhappy as I want to have these fantasies with my Mrs not through a pc screen, I’m on day 13 and am struggling now, I’m hopint the benefits will bring us closer together etc etc, sorry to ramble I’ve never done anything like this before. Thankyou
Welcome friend, things will be better. But hear my advice, don't look for benefits, do this because you need to, so you don't lose control over your life. Benefits of this are often subtle enough that you won't notice, and you'll get discouraged thinking the struggle is a waste
Hi, a brief update for you guys and after some advice.... I’m on day 19....doing ok, almost totally forgotten about porn, although I have pics of my Mrs feet/shoes which I used to fap to (because there was no sex), and pics of her standing on me, does looking at these count as a sort of porn? Or is it ok because there her feet? Saying this...on day 15, SHE actually initiated sex for the first time in a long time, kissing touching etc, and even allowed me her feet and she enjoyed it! I couldn’t believe my luck. I did ejaculate, is this a fail as I haven’t since? Since then it’s gone flat again, with the NoFap I’m starting to feel more and more emotions towards her, also starting to be turned on by more then just her feet and can’t bare to be away from her etc and jus want to make love, but she doesn’t seem to feel the same way? Or am I just over thinking?? Thankyou
