New to this ... it's been a struggle

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by xvtc ctvx, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. xvtc ctvx

    xvtc ctvx Fapstronaut

    After two decades of sexual performance issues, serial dating and reckless sex, I realized it was likely a lot of PMO that led to this. Am trying the"NoFap" lifestyle and its been a struggle. The first month had several relapses - now on a streak of about 15 days and everyday, I feel like I'm in hell. The withdrawal is real and time has gone by very slowly.

    Reading a lot about porn and sex addiction and it rings true to my situation so I am committed to keeping on track before things get even worse! One day at a time.... :)
     
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  2. Bombadil

    Bombadil Fapstronaut

    Welcome! I find that if I'm struggling, coming back here and talking about it really helps. It really helps to engage the higher brain (not just my stupid-ass monkeybrain) and see some of the consequences of where I could be heading.
     
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  3. xvtc ctvx

    xvtc ctvx Fapstronaut

    Thank you! I have also been reading books about porn and sex addiction that help remind me why I need to keep on this path. Even if it feels like living a nightmare!
     
  4. Hello and welcome!

    There were times during my initial withdrawal that I seriously thought I was going to wake up in the psych ward. No joke...it got that brutal. It does ease up though. It’s a slow process. No matter how many times you stumble, get right back up. I wish you nothing but the best :)
     
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  5. xvtc ctvx

    xvtc ctvx Fapstronaut

    Thank you :) ! I have been getting heart compression symptoms like having a heart attack. Withdrawal is no joke. Just chugging along with hope, this community helps.
     
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  6. Anxiety. It’s a bitch, man. I’ve struggled with it my whole life but when I started nofap it hit 10 times harder. I had the same problem.
     
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