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New to NoFap! 10 days without porn so far, I'm thinking about having a girlfriend!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Sutsu, Feb 17, 2021.

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  1. Feb 17, 2021 #1
    Sutsu

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    My first thread was posted in Rebooting section, I didn't find the "New to NoFap" section at that time, and I really had an urgent question to ask.

    Anyway, hello again, I'm Sutsu, and I'm 23 years old, I'm addicted to porn, or let's say I was addicted because it's 10 days now without porn ... I was addicted since I was ~18 - 19 years old. so it's more than 5 years of using porn and masturbate on porn.

    My brain was really thinking about sex sex sex sex sex all time, every day, the whole day, and I couldn't even talk to any girl to have a relationship. I was depressed in 2018 just because I've never had a relationship with a girl.

    Recently I've discovered that girls didn't attract me anymore, and I've confirmed this when a girl - who I knew for a long time - asked me to be her boyfriend, BUT I said No T_T. I don't know why, but the main reason is that she didn't attract me at all, and guess what I did after I went home? I've searched for people who looked similar to her on pornhub, and I've imagined her having sex with me :/. I've kept doing that for more than 2 weeks, and then I forget about her! (we still friends right now, but not a good friendship, I guess I did something wrong).

    Let's not make this thread gloomy :D, I don't like to complain too much, but I feel that I need to express my feeling at least. I guess that my emotional problems with girls were because of porn. (Please if you have a study about this thing, I would really like to read about it, I need to confirm my doubt).

    After 10 days without porn, I'm thinking a lot now about a girl who I saw at my university. she'll be my classmate in the next semester, she attracted me (emotionally, not sexually) and I'm thinking about asking her, but I'm still afraid because I've never asked a girl before.

    To Moderators: If you see that this thread should be in rebooting section, please feel free to move it there.
     
    Sutsu, Feb 17, 2021
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  2. Feb 19, 2021 #2
    palindromo

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.

    We should improve in all area of our life, just being dissatisfied or stressed makes us relapse.

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
    palindromo, Feb 19, 2021
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  3. Feb 19, 2021 #3
    Sutsu

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    Thanks. It's really stressful. I'm on day 12 and I feel depressed!!
     
    Sutsu, Feb 19, 2021
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