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New member. Time to get over this sissy addiction

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Rhys Chapman, Sep 20, 2016.

  1. Sep 20, 2016 #1
    Rhys Chapman

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    Hello, my name is Rhys. I am 32 years old and been in this phase of being torn from sissy porn/ wanting to become one to who I truly am. I have joined the Navy and went to boot camp back in 2002 served 8 years and got out in 2010. Around 2009 I stumbled across a website with transformation themes and came across tg games where guys would turn into sex crazed women. At first I would only play them as they were interesting and curious but after awhile I would play them to get aroused and to get off on the idea. It was like that for a few years then I started to read stories and captions of the same thing, then that is where I came across sissy stories, captions and games, at first I was thrown off of the idea but after awhile my curiosity got the better of me and starting to dabble back into it. A couple more years later the craving became more and more and I eventually started to watch and listen to sissy hypnosis and started to go even further down the rabbit hole. After awhile I went out and bought my some woman underwear and a sports bra, at first I was excited and thrilled on what had happen, then as time went on I bought more and more things, lingerie, stockings, thongs, heels ect. I got so into it that I even went online to dating sites to look for a mistress to train me and become her sissy toy and almost went through with it I found one near me we started to talk and almost scheduale a session about a month ago. I thought this is what I want but after thinking about it and coming to realize what I was about to do it hit me like hitting a wall at 90 I deleted everything threw everything away and came to terms with the horror of what sissy porn, hypnosis almost did to me to the point I wanted to become one, I know the 1st step is to admit to it and all this time I was fighting with myself thinking I came overcome this, this isn't an addiction this is just a phase, but it almost completely took over my life and was about to let it happen. I got rid of everything that even reminds me of what almost happen. So far its been a week since that happened and just stumbled across this place and nice to know there are people and places that help each other overcome things of this nature.
     
    Rhys Chapman, Sep 20, 2016
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  2. Sep 21, 2016 #2
    mike lowry

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    hi Rhys. i do not think you have that big of a problem. porn addiction is one thing and having peculiar sexual preferences is another. it is true that some guys report going into more extreme sex stuff because they can't get aroused anymore on "normal" porn, and that should be obvious if, when you quit porn you also come back to your former preferences, but if you quit porn for a long time and still fantasize about sissy sex, you should just accept it and be happy. the problem is porn damaging the brain, so quit that altogehter and see where that takes you. good luck man!
     
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  3. Sep 21, 2016 #3
    i_wanna_get_better1

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    Welcome to the forum. Our addiction creates many abnormal desires and behaviors. Addicts use objects/events/images to alter their moods and emotions to feel better. Like alcoholics, we develop a tolerance to the softer stuff and eventually escalate. ALL of us have developed a particular habit, ritual, or genre of porn that we use or prefer. Our brains have become dependent on the massive amounts of dopamine that gets released when we act out. You have conditioned your brain to need all these 'sissy' themed things in order to achieve that feeling. Our addiction is so powerful that it can alter our sexual preferences. All addicts want is to feel emotionally pain-free and we do this by creating an artificial high that comes from acting out.

    Also, our addiction can incorporate other mental issues we might be having. Power issues. Self-worth issues. Abuse issues. Sexual confusion issues.

    So, although your actions seem extreme they are really the same as the rest of us. We have emotional pain or discomfort and we just want to feel better. Learn to identify what your physical and emotional triggers are. And then try to address them in healthier ways. Start a journal. Learn to reconnect with others. Keep yourself busy. Set small goals and take pride in achieving them. Recognize when the emotional pressure is building and avoid situations that can lead to a relapse. These are just some of the tools we have used to achieve recovery.
     
    i_wanna_get_better1, Sep 21, 2016
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