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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by seacreature80, Dec 12, 2013.

  1. Dec 12, 2013 #1
    seacreature80

    seacreature80 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm a man in my early 30's. I read an article about the effects of PMO on the brain and completely agreed. I believe in Christ and have wanted to take control of my mind and my body but have been unable to take the reigns so far. I've been making progress over the past few years but I'm looking to go the extra distance and really take control of my life. I feel addicted to pleasure in the sense that I get pretty crabby if I go more than 4 days without some kind of release. If it doesn't involve my wife, its usually PMO. I'd like to change that. I'm hoping that I can find some like-minded people on this forum.
     
    seacreature80, Dec 12, 2013
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  2. Dec 12, 2013 #2
    DireWolf

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    Welcome! good to have you here, you have made the right first step coming here and speaking out, we all share the same problem, we will win, its gonna test you in every way possible, but believe me after this we will be stronger than ever before!, thanks for posting and keep going forward
     
    DireWolf, Dec 12, 2013
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  3. Dec 13, 2013 #3
    godslove

    godslove Fapstronaut

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    Have you went over and found somebody in the accountability forum?
     
    godslove, Dec 13, 2013
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  4. Dec 14, 2013 #4
    Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome!

    This might sound a bit trite but this is a copied and pasted message because I think its important to greet people but don't have to time to type out the same message every time. So rather than just ignore people I figured it would be good to do this?

    Just to get you started can I just make the following suggestions (and they are only suggestions)?

    1. Head over to the forums at the top of the main page. Don't be shy. Wade in and see what grabs your interest. Start a thread. Help others and be helped just by getting involved. Plus its the PERFECT antidote to fapping!

    2. Check out the website yourbrainonporn if you haven't already and make use of the brilliant resources there.

    3. Consider doing a 90 day reboot and get yourself a tracker (see bottom of this post)

    4. Lighten up! Humour really is the best medicine and can really help you see things from a new and and helpful perspective. (And you need that more than anything right now. Right?)

    5. Consider reading the book 'Changing for Good' by James O Prochaska. Is a particularly helpful tool for those who want to make positive and LASTING change in their life. Several of us have found this to be an indispensable tool.

    7. Don't get into arguments (especially over the usual politics/religion stuff) We are all human here and we are in this together regardless of our chosen 'path' (even if you believe truth is a 'pathless' land!)

    6. Thank the founder of this site Alexander. It really is making the world a better place (I truly believe that!) And credit where its due I say!!

    7. Greet and encourage newcomers...;-)

    All the very best to you :)
     
    Mark, Dec 14, 2013
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