Hello all, So I just have created an account on nofap but have been aware of it since I decided to start the hard mode no PMO 90 day challenge 2 weeks ago. Anyway, a bit about myself, 21 gay male, who has been wanking since 12 and have issues with delayed ejaculation. I enjoy sex but a lot of the time the sensation feels duller than wanking with my hand. I don't really cum from sex and usually only from wanking. Started this challenge to help get over this and enjoy sex a lot more as guys are confused when sex is over and I have not cum yet. Hopefully this challenge will help, the first 2 weeks have been pretty rough and hoping this forum will help me to focus on completing this challenge. Anyway, feel free to message me/reply to this post. Looking forward to complete this with other nofappers!
Hi @Aarongayfap , welcome to NoFap. What you probably do while MO is what they call "hard grip", which means that you stroke your dick so strong that this is the only thing makes you ejaculate. Other types of sex (penetration, oral or even another guy masturbating you) does not give you the same feeling so you cannot cum. The recovery for this is slow and it takes time and a lot of patience to overcome this. It took me 6 months to start ejaculating again while I was having sex with my wife. I am bisexual and used to have a lot of sex with male escorts, which was not real sex, just as garbage as watching porn. Just meaningful relationships with guys, involving love and caring for each other will get you back to what real sex with a real person means. Stay focus in your reboot and do not give up Fercho
