Need tips to recover from gay life to normal straight life

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Should recover, Sep 28, 2020.

  1. Should recover

    Should recover Fapstronaut

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    I think am addicted to gay sex. I need to recover crom it. I should have sex with a female. How can i recover from gay life to.normal straight life
     
  2. Before people come in here and tell you what they've been spoon-fed from the media... let me be the first to ask you to ask yourself some questions, and I think answering them should help you gain some direction to find where you're trying to go.

    1. Why do you think your sexual behavior is problematic?
    2. Why do you think you're addicted to gay sex?
    3. What is it about gay sex that appeals to you?
    4. What is it about gay sex that repulses you?
    5. "Recover" means to retrieve something that you've lost; what did you lose while living a gay lifestyle?
     
  3. Should recover

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  4. PrinceDaniel

    PrinceDaniel Fapstronaut

    Hello Brother,

    It is totally possible to overcome your problems.
    It is simple, but it will be hard.
    Feel free to send me a message.
    I will help you my friend.
     
  5. Industriilor

    Industriilor Fapstronaut

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    Have you considered that you are merely a Gay man and that it is normal?
     
  6. verbeek75

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    Not much information to go by, but do you feel attracted to women and feel you think you would like to be in straight relationship? But still want gay sex
    If that is the case maybe you have a sex addiction focussed on gay sex although you might be straight or bi.
    Porn addictions can be overcome most of the times alone by abstaining of watching porn but a sex addiction is a completely different thing and you need professional help to overcome it.
    You need to look into yourself do you wish you have a relationship with a woman or a man or maybe you wouldn't mind either. Getting help is no sin, get help in understanding your sexuality and to find out if this is a sex addiction.
     
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  7. Should recover

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  8. Should recover

    Should recover Fapstronaut

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    Am not getting sexual feelings with women. It may be sex addiction but not a heterosex, it's aan homesex addiction,
    Need to over come from this same sex addiction and need to live a happy life with my future wife
     
  9. Should recover

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    No am identified myself with a homosexuality nature
     
  10. That's a good start. Now you can focus on recovery from addiction. I hope you find the help you need.
     
  11. Should recover

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  12. Homosexuality is not an illness. I meant help for addiction, which is.
     
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  13. Should recover

    Should recover Fapstronaut

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    Yeah fine,
    But how can i come over from that
     
  14. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    You cannot "recover" from it to become straight, you are gay. Being gay and having gay sex is "normal" for you brother.
     
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    But being gay is no a right thing to lead a happy family life. Personal life licludes having sex with my girl ll be a most problematic one. If this ll extends then i may not have a child in future after getting married
     
  16. IGY

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    If you have a male partner, there are still ways you can have children of that is what you want. :) Consider your options.
     
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  17. Should recover

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    Nope that's not the right thing. I should change myself.
     
  18. Not true, I know gay couples who lead a very happy family life.
     
  19. You should maybe change your attitude to homosexuality.
     
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