My wife has disability!

why did you marry her in the first place?

This is really a tough situation for you... dude, if the marriage makes you that miserable, just get out of it. idk man, idk why you did this in the first place

 

Dang, that is a really tough situation you are in. I wish I could help further, but I do not know what to say.

I will say one thing: if she goes back to live with her parents, then they can figure something out for her before they die. There is probably extended relatives or a healthcare facility…

However, if you stay married to her, then it will be up to you to take care of her until the end of her life

This is really tough. I actually went through a similar situation a few years back.. I dated a girl with a disability but I didn’t end up marrying her. Deep down I knew I wanted another girl and not her, so I left the relationship. She was really sad and cried

what do you think you are going to do? Will you try to find an extramarital affair? Or will you divorce her and move her back in with her parents?

 

Did you used to have a sex life with her? It sounds like you used to find her sexually attractive. Why did those feelings go away after marrying her? If they came back, do you think she would be willing welcome those feelings and rekindle the sex life?

 

Leave and dont let her blackmail u with her tears.

 

So when you were in a bad spot, she comforted you. Now she needs you and you want to tell her to fuck off?

 

You do not use massage parlors or pmo to compensate for your wife. You were doing those things long before you met her. So, first you must acknowledge that you use because you’re an addict. That’s the first step to overcoming it. Second, probably counseling and telling your wife what you’re doing to see if she really wants to stay married to you. Come clean with her, be a decent person and give her the opportunity to decide if she wants to work on your relationship. If you can’t go that, do both of you a favor and divorce.

 

You have two choices:
1. You break this poor girl’s heart, divorce her and try to get your shit together. B/c if you jumped into marriage b/c you were lonely, sympathetic and not sexually attracted to this woman--you do NOT have your shit together.

2. You honor your marriage vows and make that marriage work. If you married her, there must have been something you were attracted to? Find that and nurture it. Marriage is fuckin work bro--that romantic comedy stuff is bullshit. Being the partner of someone with a disability is even harder work b/c it takes a higher amount of personal sacrifice to care for that person. So if you decide to stay you man the fuck up and take care of her 100%--no massage parlors, no hiding her from coworkers. Just b/c she has cerebral parsley doesn't mean she can't have sex--just means it requires adaptation, adjustment and thinking outside the box.

I only know about you what I'm reading but it doesn't sound like you REALLY love her, in which case this marriage is probably doomed. You need to do some serious soul-searching and decide.

 

I don't know what to say man, you've put yourself into an absurd scenario lol. Its not like you married a "normal" girl and then she got into a car crash or something, you married a disabled girl and now you feel frustrated that she is... disabled?