My weird shameful Fetish // I feel like crap

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Rolo75, May 7, 2019.

  1. Rolo75

    Rolo75 Fapstronaut

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    Hey bro,

    Yup, i reset my counter. And im back on track. This harder than i actually thought, Damn.
    But i wont give up. Thanks bro
     
  2. Hey, I’ve been praying for you and am confident you can find peace with this struggle. Keep on keeping on!!
     
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  3. Rolo75

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    Yo fam,

    Oh wow ! You are right.
    I just wanted to add that i dont go all the way in the alley to watch them. I usually spot one person who is about to pee but i stay Very far from them. And i dont enter the alley or the street. i really make sure that i am at a far distance. Usually when they are done, then i go inside (5 minutes after when they are long gone) . On this i agree with you, i make sure that no one feels threatened or doesnt feel Safe.

    When I say about relapse, you are right. The wanks in the morning that make me late at work and school. The wanks during work time. The wanks that last the whole week-end that make me so un productive etc.... It is hell

    I agree with you on the fact that i have a gf (who even better would like P). But unfortunately i have a serious struggle with girls. I find it awfully difficult to form relationships or get laid. Ive been in a dry spell for 5 years now. And i dont think its going to get any better sadly...
     
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  4. aliasghar1378

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    Bro im experienced one! If you say its hard or not easy finally you will do it .juat say its nothing or its easy (we know its hard but can deceive our brain saying its nothing) and brother listen to my advice read quran ( i know you aren't muslim but try it you dont lose anything i promise its very helpful .at least after i started reading quran i last for 55 days
     
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  5. plzrlzme

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    Weird how an infinitely powerful being can only stop you from masturbating for 55 days.

    Then again, I've met Mormons who I'm pretty sure never had an O in their life. They must have a better book.
     
  6. Rolo75

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    Hey,
    Damn this one hit hard. I need to stay focused, im back on track. Thanks for the headsup bro
     
  7. plzrlzme

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    #fetishresponsibly

    Yeah. Shit. Maybe you should take up knitting. You know, something to occupy your hands . . . Lol. Seriously though, what do you think the trigger is?

    For me, it was fear of losing my libido. I'm getting old enough that shit is just slowing down. It's kinda backwards because when my sex drive was the highest, I didn't obsess over it. When my hormones started to fade, sex was suddenly all I could think about. It's like I wanted to have as many orgasms as possible in case some day I wouldn't be able to anymore. I'm probably not the only one who has felt this way. That's probably what drives most midlife crises.

    It will. It always does.
     
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  8. aliasghar1378

    aliasghar1378 Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate anything stop me for just one day! a book a movie or a radio podcast .im just sharing my experience bro. And dont expect years and years hours and hours porno suddenly disapears from you mind just with reading a book.
    "Faith doesn't make it easier , faith makes it possible"
     
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  9. plzrlzme

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    Well said.
    100% agree.
    Really depends on what "it" is, don't you think?
     
  10. aliasghar1378

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    I agree
    Recently i realized how important it is. I believe in this and it works for me so i wanted to suggest that,maybe it works for somebody else.
     
  11. Rolo75

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    Thanks bro for the prayer and encouragements. Even if i fall ten times and relapse, Ill get up and fight porn again.

    Same goes for you bro
     
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  12. Rolo75

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    Hey,

    Yes, i do fetish responsibly, always. Frightening drunk women in the night is the last of my desires tbh. Woman have to deal with enough shit already...

    Oh the libido right, well i can't speak that much on that issue because personnaly i have a very high libido. From puberty to now so i can't imagine myself not wanting to have sex. I would feel very strange if i didn't have any libido. Maybe the fact that i'm young plays a part in it though, idk.

    Hmm not too sure about that, i'm really depressed about it and don't go out anymore because i feel like i'm going to be endlessely rejected so yeah... I sadly think that i gave up at this point... Smh
     
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  13. Tillywhisper

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    The reason I found this website was through a book called Timinology, whose author, Tim Leach, deals with trying to relieve a client's fetish for cross dressing. I, myself, have a fetish for being tied up and so through using this guys techniques I most definitely have it under control. I own it now, rather than it owing me, which is what he tells you how to achieve. The Chapter is called self-control so do find a copy if you want to free yourself!
     
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  14. Rolo75

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    Hey man,

    Great man, glad that you got your fetish under control. Stay focused.
    Thanks man, i'll definitely check out that book. I need to get rid of this crazy addiction smh.
     
  15. Jackb97

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    Kinky. Only part that's unhealthy is drinking the random piss IMO. What's wrong with having a fetish anyway?
    Just my opinion though. Don't take me too seriously. I don't.
     

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