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My success has not started

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by master90days, Apr 2, 2015.

  1. Apr 2, 2015 #1
    master90days

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    Hello this is a short post, however when it comes to rebooting and creating success. I will be honest, I am doing NoFap hardmode. My success has not began because I have not fully achieved the things I want to achieve for this year, even started with deep intention and discipline for the next four years. However I am writing the story for it slowly. Right now I only have one week left of my 90 days, yet I know it is not about days rather improving my life.

    Sadly only recently I am came out of big dip of sadness maybe it was a flatline, I do not know. I was really, really unhappy that it was worrying my family. (I am slowly getting better now).

    All I want to say to the people on here, spend time creating the life, you want one day at a time. Remember it is not always about you, so do not take it so personally. Also it is better to try and fail than not try at all.

    Lastly I know it is hard, however just create discipline and intent. Then you can achieve anything.

    I wish you all the best of luck for people on here. Life is an uphill struggle for someone, while some people are born with sliverspoons and do not make the most of this opportunity.

    my motto: be the best version of you can be.
     
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  2. Apr 2, 2015 #2
    DannyCool

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    Yes I love it. You are making the most of your opportunity and you know the real meaning of suffering. This is powerful stuff cause you are really really powerful. Respect.
     
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  3. Apr 2, 2015 #3
    DannyCool

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    Get to 90 days and then celebrate big time is my opinion. Look at all the wonderful people and how beautiful the world is and have a Guinness on me from Ireland. We one the 6 nations for the second time in a row in the rugby and please support me im on day 60 roughly well 2 months today since pmo. Thanks for your words of encouragement. Im so energised by your post you wouldn't believe it so much respect and thank you. I just wish the people that have so much make the full opportunity of this life too. People can go from the worst situation to the absolute best (true success) just in this life. It is so possible. We are all in the same boat. Your wish that other people fulfil their goals through your suffering energises me so much. You have it and you will help people find a better life with your intention. I love it. I could make the most of this opportunity just like you. The 90 days is just numbers. That is magic stuff but still we must go through it to get there.
     
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  4. Apr 3, 2015 #4
    Cooldude4

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    Man, If it is tough, then belive me it is going to be worth it.
    Focus and achieve, If it would been easy any one could have achieved it but itis tough and it is worth it.
    Focus, eat right, exercise and cold shower are the keys.
    Al the best!!!
     
    Cooldude4, Apr 3, 2015
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  5. Apr 3, 2015 #5
    kamado86

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    Well done to you. 90 days nearly that's amazing. Keep at it :)
     
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  6. Apr 3, 2015 #6
    willgrit

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    First, Congratulations on almost hitting 90 days.
    Second, nothing is guaranteed in life. Even life itself is not guaranteed. Anyone of us could die tomorrow.
    Third, the only thing YOU can control is YOUR actions. You, me, us, anyone, WE do NOT control the results.
    So keep doing what you are doing, because you are disciplined, you are hopeful, and more importantly, I think you have a very positive outlook, so success WILL come. Its just a matter of time now.
     
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  7. Apr 3, 2015 #7
    master90days

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    Thank you all for your kind words.
     
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  8. Apr 5, 2015 #8
    DannyCool

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    Let us know if you reach the 90
     
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  9. Apr 6, 2015 #9
    fapequalsdeath

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    keep moving man don't be fail like me
     
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  10. Apr 6, 2015 #10
    Cojax

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    Keep it up! We all go through tough times, just dont let them break you! Dont give up and you will feel really proud of yourself!
     
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  11. Apr 6, 2015 #11
    master90days

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    I will do in two days time.
     
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  12. Apr 6, 2015 #12
    master90days

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    How do you know you are a fail? What determines a fail?

    Secondly people of nofap I need your help asap. I need an accountability partner because I recently flatlined badly and was sad for a month, is also did not help with me losing my job. So I need to find the motivation and discipline to find a new career asap.
     
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  13. Apr 7, 2015 #13
    fapequalsdeath

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    Eh... yea I need that to... replased hard after 8 day clean streak. Now i'm depressed and fap every day to fetish porn.
     
    fapequalsdeath, Apr 7, 2015
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  14. Apr 7, 2015 #14
    master90days

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    Just read this article, I know it is about tv watching however the same is for porn. Also get an AP and k9 on your computer and realise replases happens to everyone and move on. Their is something emotionally you are holding onto while you watch porn, you are compensation for in real life. For me it was my ex breaking up with me and not feeling good about myself and my life. Now I think I need to get my shit together and be the person I want to be.

    http://www.lifehack.org/articles/pr...-you-should-stop-watching-television-now.html

    http://coloradocoachingcompany.com/11-reasons-you-struggle-to-achieve-your-dreams/

    ps. 1 day until 90 days!
     
    master90days, Apr 7, 2015
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  15. Apr 12, 2015 #15
    DannyCool

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    Everything comes back together again way stronger with a very solid base which you can build and rebuild what you want. If you can defeat the urges you can defeat the low mood. The secret is to catch the low mood when it just starts creeping up on you. It is the feeling of being low is the enemy.
     
    DannyCool, Apr 12, 2015
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