My recovery plan, does this sound good?

I've only watched porn about 15 times over the last two years – the porn relapses really hit me back, and so did having sex when I didn't really feel like it. I had sex a few times and it didn't go great; could barely last and was hard to get fully hard. People suggested erection pills but this didn't really help. It was like I was bullying my willy to do something it didn't want to do.

SO my plan now is just avoid PMO and sex until I am feeling horny all the time. If I don't feel confident about having sex, don't have it. I want to feel so good that any dysfunctions aren't even on the mind. I've gone on dates when I felt 80% healed in the past and it's sent me back as the sex part always went bad.

Currently, just short of 90 days. Going to just ignore PMO and sex until I feel horny all the time. Does that sound like a good plan?

I currently feel great apart from very low libido and lack of pleasure sensation when I do. Plus morning wood is only at 70%. Everything else feels great. Feeling happier and my mind feels very sharp.

I just don't think this "rewiring slowly with a partner" is true. It just feels like bullying your frazzled mind to have sex. What do you think?