Hello, So I was recently having sex and I had to jerk my dick to stay hard , once I entered my partner I had a few strokes then I came and my little man went dead. I believe my penis is conditioned to my hand . I also believe I damaged some of my nerves in my penis. I just started Nofap (again)this week so I’m relatively new, however I’m afraid What I did to my penis will he irreversible, I want to get my penis to being more sensitive and to naturally get erect without me having to touch it . Does anyone know how long that’ll take , or have any success stories/ any advice . it will be greatly appreciated Thank You
Thank you, I just restarted my NoFap Journey today , I realize I touch myself frequently, had to be almost 30x in one day . I’m a bit nervous as to what my body will naturally get an erection to , but I’m excited This sounds like the typical journey of porn-induced desensitization. Point being, don't worry too much about it! What you need to focus on is staying abstinent and allowing your brain and body to recover. I would say go at least 30 days without any sexual contact when you're first starting out. The reason for this is to just clear out the muck, so to speak, and allow yourself to recover quickly. In most cases people start seeing results by 30 days. Maybe it's morning wood, maybe it's natural erections with a partner, but there will be some sort of improvement. From that point on you can start being sexual with your partner, however if you haven't seen any improvement yet it might be more beneficial to wait a bit longer. 30 days really is a minimum. Now, many people take longer to see results. The deeper your addiction was (frequency, length per session, and length of porn use) the longer it will take. Again, the key is not to worry too much about this. Just remain consistent and do your best to recover. One thing that I will warn against however, is that you get too attached to being fully healed before you start engaging with partners. I've seen more than once a guy wait over a year and still not have any improvement in morning wood. Or they tried sleeping with a woman and didn't have an erection the first time. They freak out and say, "oh I have to wait another year before I try again!" What is going on in these situations is that they have cleaned up the porn-induced desensitization, but they haven't re-conditioned themselves to a real woman. This is especially true for people who started porn very young. If you started watching porn before you lost your virginity, that means your sexuality has developed completely around porn. You have to get real life experience with women to re-condition your sexuality to real life women. At that point, you just have to deal with the erectile issues that you have. This is much easier said than done, I completely understand. It's embarrassing when you have such issues. The key is to stay confident. If it happens, don't sweat it, maybe even make a joke about. If you are confident and don't take it seriously, then she will feel comfortable. she will only judge you when you judge yourself. If it happens, focus on her pleasure. Guys with erectile issues will often stop the sex completely. If instead you focus on her pleasure, make her orgasm, and then not expect anything return, she will respect the fuck out of you. A woman loves a guy who is willing to set aside his own pleasure for hers. Keep trying, let go of shame, self-judgement, and make sure she enjoys herself even when you can't perform. Over time, you'll eventually fully recover and have strong erections.[/QUOTE]
Hey I'm a 23 years old guy and I get your issue. I started watching P since I was 16 due to my classmates peer pressuring and calling me a (F word for gay). Then later that year, I finally understood how to Eja. The same thing to Virginity, lost it at 19 due to being called names. to this day I regret being sexually active. I wasn't that sexual but when I lost my virginity I went all in. I mean seeing an escort almost daily, taking jobs to afford it and even selling my laptop for it. Yes seriously. The first thing i did was going to an escort even though my car barely had any gas in it. The escort was shocked and even told her pimp and he called me and said I shouldn't come back again because my behaviour is very "messed up". A pimp being sympathetic to a client, that is something you only see in movies. Plus, it is illegal so i was almost arrested by undercover agents but they forgave me when I told them I'm a soon-to-be teacher. I'm pathetic. Guess what happened? I kept on to my bad habits. Now since I realised how much money I have saved I stopped seeing escort to like once every 2-4 months. It's been a while for sure. Guess what happens when you leave one addiction? the answer is: another one rises. In my case, food and escorts became a seriously bad P addiction. I mean paying minors because they are cute and cheap and Ejac when I'm soft like very soft. I try to stop but i can't last more than 2 days. I think we are both on the same boat because even with a women I take so long sometimes only Ejac with my hand. Im trying to get better. I workout now and it made me feel like a stud for sure. Try Cardio or just walking daily for an hour. Also eating more vegan stuff like chickpeas and lentils are all that helps a lot. It's been bad for me for like 2 weeks I mean calling/ paying for 4 girls within hours between them. Seeing your post gave me hope honestly. Please keep us updated. We care.
well how does one find that out? And what to do if you have nerve damage If you think that you could have nerve damage then you might want to get that looked at.[/QUOTE]
wow, I’m sorry to hear all that man, have you ever thought of speaking to someone? Like a therapist? If not you can talk to me , also thank you for the support Hey I'm a 23 years old guy and I get your issue. I started watching P since I was 16 due to my classmates peer pressuring and calling me a (F word for gay). Then later that year, I finally understood how to Eja. The same thing to Virginity, lost it at 19 due to being called names. to this day I regret being sexually active. I wasn't that sexual but when I lost my virginity I went all in. I mean seeing an escort almost daily, taking jobs to afford it and even selling my laptop for it. Yes seriously. The first thing i did was going to an escort even though my car barely had any gas in it. The escort was shocked and even told her pimp and he called me and said I shouldn't come back again because my behaviour is very "messed up". A pimp being sympathetic to a client, that is something you only see in movies. Plus, it is illegal so i was almost arrested by undercover agents but they forgave me when I told them I'm a soon-to-be teacher. I'm pathetic. Guess what happened? I kept on to my bad habits. Now since I realised how much money I have saved I stopped seeing escort to like once every 2-4 months. It's been a while for sure. Guess what happens when you leave one addiction? the answer is: another one rises. In my case, food and escorts became a seriously bad P addiction. I mean paying minors because they are cute and cheap and Ejac when I'm soft like very soft. I try to stop but i can't last more than 2 days. I think we are both on the same boat because even with a women I take so long sometimes only Ejac with my hand. Im trying to get better. I workout now and it made me feel like a stud for sure. Try Cardio or just walking daily for an hour. Also eating more vegan stuff like chickpeas and lentils are all that helps a lot. It's been bad for me for like 2 weeks I mean calling/ paying for 4 girls within hours between them. Seeing your post gave me hope honestly. Please keep us updated. We care.[/QUOTE]
Well guys i relapsed , I was extremely sad on Sunday , family drama . I’m so used to jerking off when I’m sad because of the obvious, it makes you feel better . I came four times . Felt terrible afterwards. So I’m back on day 2 no masturbation, keep goin fellas
