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My name is AshamedGopher, and I'm a fapaholic.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by AshamedGopher, Sep 12, 2018.

  1. Sep 12, 2018 #1
    AshamedGopher

    AshamedGopher Fapstronaut

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    Where to begin? I started watching porn at 12(before internet porn), and it started off as Vanilla Playboy type stuff. Gradually,it got more deviant. I crossed the line multiple times into cam girls, which being married is a major no no. What really got me was being a victim of sextortion. I tried to hide it from my wife, but she found out. Though we are trying to work through it, she was understandably upset(more like thoroughly pissed). I realized I had a problem too late. She told me she doesn't have a problem with me watching regular stuff. I told her I want to make a conscious effort to quit all porn, and it will probably be better for us.
    I am here at a real tough time in my life, and really hope that this gives me the guidance and strength I need to pull through.
     
    AshamedGopher, Sep 12, 2018
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  2. Sep 12, 2018 #2
    FranktheTank7

    FranktheTank7 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome, immerse yourself in the experience of recovery from others. Many here are successful if they make the effort to change. Read and learn all you can. Good luck to you gopher.
     
    FranktheTank7, Sep 12, 2018
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  3. Sep 14, 2018 #3
    PowerfulSRE

    PowerfulSRE Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the community brother!

    This is a great place to be, here are some of the most supportive guys on the world, and I would like to suggest you to keep coming and post and interact with other fapstronauts, daily. Start educating yourself about the addiction, once when you know against what you are fighting, it will be a lot easier. Dont be hard on yourself, you are not in this alone, and don't be afraid to ask anything.

    I wish you good luck and to Stay Strong!
     
    PowerfulSRE, Sep 14, 2018
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