Hi guys, new to the forums. I'm a 33-year-old guy. Congrats to all of you for participating in an excruciatingly difficult but wildly rewarding journey. I've been active on the Reddit page and trying to hit a 90-day streak since 2013 and haven't been able to do it. My record, until now, was 69 days, but I'm going to make it this time! Full disclosure, I have a fiance so I've been on easy mode. And I'll admit, I've edged a few times and haven't fully abstained from porn, which I'm realizing now is a hugely important part of this process. So from now on, no porn. I've deleted all my videos, installed site blockers, etc. But I am on 75 days free of PMO, which is an enormous accomplishment for me! I am getting married in a month, which is the main reason I've been so motivated to hit 90 days this time. I don't want to be the husband who sneaks out of bed, by dark of night, to his office to PMO. I don't want to imagine porn scenarios and fantasies in my mind while I have sex with my wife. I don't want to use my wife as a masturbatory tool. It's dishonorable. In fact, it's reprehensible. Women in porn never age. As my beautiful wife ages (albeit gracefully because she's asian ), it will become impossible for her to compete with porn stars. This is why porn has destroyed innumerable marriages. I won't let that happen. I firmly believe that porn cannot exist in a healthy relationship or marriage. Anyway, nice to meet you, and I can't wait to offer support to any of you, because Lord knows I'll be needing it myself!
Wow, very similar story to my own (35, got married a month ago). Congratulations on the upcoming wedding and great work on getting to 75 days.
Thanks man! Congratulations on your wedding as well! I know it will be tough, but I'm envisioning a completely porn-free marriage.
