My introduction - keeping sexuality a secret

Thanks all for the great responses. I don't log on to this site often, but I do so when I get a strong urge and need some support or need to express myself.

I am away from my wife for 11 days now, and have been successfully avoiding porn. I really appreciate this response above, because I am absolutely on the path to dig deep and uncover the core issues underlying all of my pain, the sexual stuff included. I am right now at a healing workshop and in a state of deep sadness. Lots of unworthiness coming up, and I remember how tempting porn is at a time like this. I also remember how that just adds so much insult to injury, and takes me to an even deeper level of unworthiness and shame.