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Morality and Spirituality Discussions

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by FastingPrayerSleep, Dec 5, 2014.

  1. FastingPrayerSleep

    FastingPrayerSleep Fapstronaut

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    Morality and Spirituality are things I'm just always thinking about.

    I've been like that since childhood. Just often asking myself why people may seem nice or mean, honorable or dishonorable, inspiring or not and so on.

    Anyway, I will probably randomly ask questions and make statements pertaining to morality and spirituality in this thread.

    Honestly I don't want any fake agreements or unwanted attempts to convert people to particular belief systems.

    I believe "the golden rule" really sums this stuff up but there are many aspects of it in daily life that just always grab my interest.

    All respectful posts pertaining to morality or spirituality are welcome but I think I may be posting to myself here for a bit lol.
     
  2. pmc1991

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    What would you say is the need for morals? Why do we need to be polite, even more than that, whats to stop anyone from murdering you and taking everything you have? I know that's a little extreme, but thoughts?
     
  3. FastingPrayerSleep

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    I like this post.

    Well I think the need for morals relates to the most sustainable forms of human happiness.

    Since we depend on very limited bodies to pursue happiness we can't do anything we want without being faced with pain and suffering due to these limited bodies.

    Sensible people try to avoid such pain and suffering whenever they are convinced they can so that is where I believe the roots of morality began and evolved from.

    Now what is there to stop someone from murdering and robbing me? A few things in modern society.

    My fairly secure location, the police who are about a 10 minute drive away from my location, locks on the doors, weapons that I personally carry on me, being more physically fit than many men in my country among other things.

    But what is there to stop the attempt at killing and robbing me? Well there is public moral conditioning mainly (typically religious but certainly not always) and I can't think of much else.

    Which in my opinion would suffice if all people exercised a reassuring amount of sense.

    Interesting questions.

    -Edit

    Just saw how long ago it was posted. I just noticed it and certainly did not ignore it. Really I found it interesting.
     
    Last edited: Dec 6, 2014
  4. pmc1991

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    "Sensible people try to avoid such pain and suffering whenever they are convinced they can so that is where I believe the roots of morality began and evolved from."

    But do you not find that in this modern world, doing the moraly right thing can cause pain and suffering? Take for instance this sight. Married men come here to break the addiction of P. Now the moral thing to do is to be honest and not lie about the problem whith your partner, this would be moraly correct, however it would cause pain and suffering to both parties.

    As far as happiness, being moraly correct does not always bring happiness, maybe fulfilment, but somethings we must do sometimes are not enjoyed. unfortunantly the public "sense" of morals is often seen when the public "congregates", for example, Fergusen, Greece, Egypt, etc. When anonymity of a mass crowd is involved generally morals are disregarded. This is when a thing such as character is revealed. it shows itself when no one is looking. I believe the two to go hand in hand. Sometimes the right thing to do is not the easy thing to do. I dont mean to press my opinions, im just making conversation =)
     
  5. FastingPrayerSleep

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    Well I can't imagine a situation where humans could totally escape suffering for even 1 hr.

    Morality's main function is to ease the mental suffering our physical limits will bring us to and prevent us from hurting others irrationally.

    Now the only morally right thing in my book is to try to treat others how you want to be treated. This doesn't mean telling everyone the truth about everything all the time.

    I'd say imagine things from the wife's perspective and how serious I may or may not be about actually ending my porn use.

    If I wasn't serious about ending it but still wanted to be with her and knew she would not have it then there simply is no way to fulfill her emotional needs and the morally right thing to do in my eyes would be to end the relationship.

    But committed women support their men when their men try to please them so if she's committed to me and I really was doing well with stopping porn use I'd be eager to tell her about my progress and just how much meeting her sexual and emotional needs mattered to me.

    And the proof of me actually stopping would impress her more than if I was just all talk.

    In any case don't go ending a marriage just because this single guy typed an opinion on Nofap.org. I am very opinionated but I don't think I'm very smart.

    For sure you know your wants better than me.
     
  6. pmc1991

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    Interesting thought =) Personally my belief about morals is based on my belief in a one true God. If all we are is carbon waiting to expire, then someone would have a different view. Morals and character are so much more than being nice and making happy to me. Its true what you said though, in reality there is no way to fulfill another persons expectations. We always come up short because we are human. We do the best with what we are given. we make choices and consequences are returned. There must be absolutes in life or everything would slowly drift away. Nature does not have morals, nature is programmed. Nature takes without remorse, it survives or dies. I view myself and humans different from nature due to my belief of a soul. We struggle against it, having to choose the easy path of self fulfillment or the path of self denial. Morals then become more than a salve to ease pain. They become absolutes set by my Creator. The great aspect of this is free will. We can choose our own path. The path we choose and our decisions, make and change our character and morals. With those decisions, the consequences change as well. It all depends on what you base them on and how valuable they are to you.
     
  7. Duelcee

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    You have to ask what would the world be like if every single person acted that way? That's why just about every religion in the world has a version of the golden rule. It's why-ideally- our laws inforce fairness.
     
  8. cleanmindhappymind

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    All morals come from God, but some are more human based than God based and thus easier for diverse socities to adopt (ie killing is bad).
    More specific spiritual ones (sexual purity, respect for the name of God and Christ) are associated with specific religions and not so widely accepted
    Morals and commandments exist for our happiness and improvement as spiritual beings. Even when it's tough its good to know its for our own good.
     
  9. Whatever

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    Morality is how reality functions. Spirituality is psych-ology.
     

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