Might take Viagria to reduce chances of PIED d

Multiple accounts say it only helps for a couple of minutes before you go limp again. Nothing you can really do except nofap with time.

 

I agree with J247. anything you do besides nofap is only going to delay reaching the day when you can take a girl to bed with complete confidence. ED has many causes, sometimes its physical, sometimes mental. do some research before you start popping pills.

personally i have had bad PIED due to PMO and death grip. once i tried pills and it didnt help much, because i was too in my head about ED and made my fear come true

if this girl is one that you just cant walk away from (we've all been there, its understandable..) then just be prepared that pills may not work a 100%.

one suggestion : talk to her, tell her whats going on. youd be surprised how understanding girls can be. some may even take it as a challenge to see if they can turn you on enough to 'fix' your problem.

 

In the past I had had good success with even 10mg, breaking off a little bit from a 100mg pill.
But during my flatline, on an empty stomach and perfect conditions, the 10mg did zip, nada, limp, nothing. And really, the drive isn't there, the desire... so why try to force it.

 

lol. fair enough, then dont tell her

i had ED about 5-6 weeks into my reboot but it was a casual hookup so i didnt care. but the next day i was ok with someone else, and the rest of the week was a rampage with no ED problems. just didnt have super strong erections.

it'll work eventually just give it time

 

When your ED cleared, was it just a wake up one morning and bam, good to go, or was it a gradual thing? Cause I'm on day 34 with nothing except an occasional MW.

 

i got overexcited about having spontaneous erections 5 weeks into the streak and edged, then O'd. fucking up the streak pissed me off and i went on a sex binge for a week. with the first girl i had ED and PE (wtf!!). but then each time after that i had no ED, erections were just at 80% ish, but good enough for sex. at the end of the week i was in full force.

for me ED was partly mental, and partly due to death grip. the 5-6 week streak helped a lot but its not just about hitting 90 days.

nofap helps to undo the faulty wiring in our brain that we reinforce with PMO. but then you have to start the healthy rewiring process with a girl and normal sex. atleast that was my experience, may be different for others.

 

The problem is not the penis, but the addicted brain. The prolactin, accumbens, and deltafosb. Hard mode is the best way to go.

 

Now how does one get a girl when going through the flatline? I can see when get erections back, but till then I think you're SOL.

 

During flatline, you get to know a girl. You talk; she talks. You eat pizza, you watch a movie, you listen to music, you cuddle, you walk, but you do not sex. You also do not worry about getting blue-balls. After you know her, and your flatline is over, the two of you will figure out what to do. Until then, she is a girl, not a sex object, and you are a boy, not needing a sex object. Relax and enjoy the moments.

 

well if you want to do it right then dont get a girl during flatline, and not even once the erections are back. do the full 90 days hard/monk mode, then get the girl

mine is a cautionary tale, not a success story. if edging was falling off the wagon, the sex binge was diving off head first. afterwards i went into a worse flatline than before. it was fucking horrible...

on this new streak im at 30 something days, and im keeping Jr. in the pants till im 'fixed'

 

exactly, just chill and enjoy life, enjoy women, enjoy friends in general. keep sex off your mind until your body and mind are ready

 

You have oversexed with P & M, now is a good time to relax and let your body go back to normal healthy male mode.
You will have your summer to do a good reboot. By the time you get back to college and the frat, you should be in very good shape to enjoy next year like you can't really enjoy the end of this one. Relax, kiss her good-by and tell you will be back next year, a new man.
Quit worrying about fixing your performance. Work on rebooting calmly without pushing it, and you will be amazed at how your performance improves naturally through your reboot. Do the 90 days, and you will be a new man.

 

Yes.

 

You're standing at a really good crossroads in your life.

Because you're 20, in a frat house and there's this girl that's available right now for sex, your situation seems extremely urgent. You wanna screw, that's natural.

Then you read the posts on here of 16 year old boys trying to make sure they don't have a problem to 45 year old men who know for sure they have a problem. Seems most of us say "I wish I had known earlier".

You could spend your summer break to tackle this or come back at 45.

Don't mean to sound like a dick. It's just funny, isn't it, all the stories of who we were, who we are and who we could still become.

 

Against ED, I've had good results (gradual, but good), by taking Tongkat Ali regularly. It may get you into trouble, but you won't be wondering what your balls are for!