This is a post to help those who ,by their own admission, have a "trans fetish" I suggest going to the subforum reddit, "transpassing", which is SFW and only shows the face. this is a subforum for trans people ;almost always MTF, to ask "if they pass" (as a woman). This will show you they are people , common everyday persons, not a fetish, not necessarily they watch P (maybe they dont!) etc so, its just a selfie, a normal person. all the mythology and fantasies are fiction and lies! Staying grounded, be realistic, accept anyone and everyone is just living his life to the best ability. I hope my method is able to be useful and helpful to apply.