Men in 30s

Do any of you feel like your sexual performance is just not as good as it was when you were in your early/mid 20s? I just feel like I am slowing down. I'm pretty physically active. Some mornings (especially now) I am oten awake with no morning wood. I had my testosterone levels checked and my total T was around 574 ng/dl recently. I felt like when I was younger, I could get an erection almost by relaxing and fantasizing just a little bit.

 

To be honest, I have read so much, I'm not sure. I also have a fetish that I had in puberty, but the more I viewed it the more it took over my sexual pallete so to speak. It could be PIED.

 

Well, sex has never been as exciting since I started this addiction. Has it improved for you?

 

At least you have a partner. PIED and my fetish has fucked me up so bad that I'm scared to hookup with a girl anymore.

 

My fetish is towards bigger women, which is not good because most women near me are very thin and athletic, which for some reason, thanks to the fetish, I am not attracted to or do not get a hard on with. So I feel very weird. I was around one woman who was very very toxic and got a lot of attention and was not looking for the same thing. As a result, I have come to realize the women in my life are very rare to date. Which I am also ashamed of the attraction.

Also, why do you think it's not PIED yet? I think that's some very fine line conclusions here.

 

I don't think that's true.

 

PIED means I can get an erection with porn and cannot get one with a real partner.