Low libido 10 days into a reboot - should I tell my gf?

Hey everyone!

I'm 10 days into a reboot, and it's going well, except my libido is low. This is unusual for me, and I'm wondering if it's a normal thing. I've also had some depression this year which affects it too.

Should I have sex with my gf during this reboot? Until my libido goes up again.

I haven't told her about the reboot. I told her about my old porn addiction, but it came back with the depression a little this year. Should I just tell her its back and I'm rebooting for both our sakes, and if I don't feel like having sex just tell her so? I'm sure she'd understand, but will that make the reboot unnecessarily painful or more effective?

 

Thanks for the advice guys! I've told her and she's totally supportive, she said she won't ask to have sex while I'm 'flatlining,' and anyway I mean so much more to her than the sex. Thanks for the good advice!

 

I'd say that really the best idea is to not worry at all about flatlining the first 2-6 weeks. It'll go away, and you just gotta trust it'll be great after.

 

Thanks man!