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Love & Change

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Workforthatlife, Apr 22, 2018.

  1. Apr 22, 2018 #1
    Workforthatlife

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    Today it feels like love is related to your job, connections, appearance and money.

    The pureness seems rare.
    I believe every one want something from someone else. Love. Happiness. Friends. Belonging. Stsbility. We always "Want". Even when we help people. We want to provide security and kindness.

    It's in our nature to want. We consume until we're satisfied and die.
    We make goals and meaning for our life even our own personal philosophy to live by. That what make use so diverse.

    Even if that freedom causes tensions, within other of different origin or skin. We are petty people at times but we are unique.
    We love with a close hand until someone helps us open it. If we're lucky, we will open other people hands later on in life.
    Understand that other people will challenge, mock , hate, criticise and not trust you.

    That's okay, each of us have our proud and a fixed amount of time to live our short lives. Regardless if the challenges are impossible, know that each breath you breath is another proof that your alive. Use your ambition to take and grow until your hands can open others.

    Know that even if you feel alone, just being alive gives you a chance to make that mircale into action.

    -Love ya lonely folks. Good Luck.

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    Workforthatlife, Apr 22, 2018
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  2. Apr 22, 2018 #2
    Yanis

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    Great!
    Being alive is fantastic. I like to choose joy and focus on what I really wNt: true love, true happiness. What I am looking for is inside, not outside. The more I discover the beauty inside the more I will see the beauty in others. There is a divine spark in all of us.
     
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  3. Apr 22, 2018 #3
    Workforthatlife

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    I agree, each of us have a great spark.
    Looking forward to that day, when we can accept even just a few others into our lives without condition
     
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  4. Apr 22, 2018 #4
    elevate

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    If you're fortunate enough to have great role models and teachers in your life, you'll naturally want to pass down what you've learned from them out of gratitude. The same goes for any relationship that leaves a positive impact on you. It changes you and you bring that into interactions with other people.

    We should all take more responsibility for our own personal development so that we can have a more positive effect on others. Having a negative effect on someone also spreads and harms more people than you realize.

    Get to a point in your life where you give more than you get. The positive effect you have on others matter. If you give enough value in this world, what you want becomes bonus rather than something you chase. On the other hand, if we're self centered, then we end up with something like a porn addiction where our pleasure is all the matters and we end up with an empty disconnected life.

    We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. - Winston Churchill
     
    elevate, Apr 22, 2018
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