Lost Meaning

The time brother. Everytime you relapce you waste time and time is something we cant turn back, its the most valuable resource we have. Value time more than anything. You will do it now and for what? For 2-3 seconds of orgasm? Thats what you sacrifice your future for? Think about it. You can also give a word to yourself to stop doing it. I did it many times and relapced but now i keep my word, word and time mean everything to me now. Why? Because as i said i cant turn back time and with the word i realized that everytime i break my word i lose respect for myself. Its very related, self-respect and your moral code, your honor. Why are we socialy-akward, lonely, sad in the first place? Because of our low self-esteem and what causes that? For example bullying. Ever wondered why the victims of bullying often become depressed people? Because of low self-esteem. Sometime in their life period they couldnt stand up for themselves and they lost respect for themselves. I understand that every action that contradicts my morality is self destructive, it destroys my respect for myself, thats why i dont believe in myself, thats why im afraid of people and we just stuck in a self-destructive loop. Give a word to yourself that you will make it for 3 months for example, dont break your word and remember about time. God bless you. Sorry for my bad english.

 

Stay strong, don't give up man!!
A relapse is quite normal when your brain is addicted to porn for so long. Brain needs time to rewire, that's not bullsh*t this is science. That's why the common NOFAP CHALLENGE on hard mode lasts 90 days, and that's also why it is so effective. During this time your brain makes structural, long-lasting changes

Commit yourself for a long streak and give your 100% on that. Be busy, do strong workouts, fight the urges and find a way not to fall in trap. You have to be very focused on that goal and you will see the difference!

 

Start our own eight day challenge.

Or, if you haven't, join one of the other challenges. I joined The Lord of the Rings challenge because I thought it would be fun. It's easy to get lost in a funk. All of us go through it.

One thing which helps me is to process my past mistakes and to understand I am forgiven. I tend to beat myself up for things long in the past.

 

Look man, your only goal is to get through today without PMO.

Just today. It never needs to be bigger or harder than that.

 

Wise.

 

Thanks. It's always a let down when the people who need it don't come back.
That's how it seems to roll around here.