LISTEN UP IF YOU CALL YOURSELF A MAN

Failure is feedback

 

I agree with every damn word.

 

Yes, those who understand the beauty of a healthy mind typically know how injurious it is to demean yourself through indulgence, greed, etc. We know the effect of PMO, so let's understand that this doesn't come easy. Even at writing this, I am having lurid fantasies, but I am doing my best to get through with it and find something better to do. I am reciting all the proverbs and disciplines I swore myself to, and I am much stronger than I used to be at dealing with my unkempt mind than I was long ago. It comes with time. Let's keep it going.

 

whats pmo?

 

hell yeah cheers to that!

 

People are so unpatient. They think that if they just stay away from porn for 90 days they will be cured and clean just like Jesus. And then they relapse on that journey and think that they did nothing for themselves.
Like dude you watched porn for 10 years, what is wrong with you? You think you can make it at the 1st try?
No you can't. No one can. We will all relapse sometimes it's normal. It's better to be clean for 20-30 days and then relapse, and continue journey, than give up and relapse every fu***** day. You gain experience, you learn from mistakes, you have now more reasons to improve, that's good.

If you manage somehow that you can jerkoff every 30 days, it's fu***** miracle. You will jerk off only 12 times a year.
I used to jerk off 12 times in 4 days.

Let's be clear, relapse is not an option at all. But if it happens, you must rise above it and see where you were wrong, and do things better next time. It's long process
PATIENCE PATIENCE PATIENCE