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Libido? Wtf is normal!?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Rav70, Mar 15, 2016.

  1. Mar 15, 2016 #1
    Rav70

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    So I put forth a question what's normal when you've pretty much been a deviant pervert your whole life?
    Boyfriend and I were talking about this. His libido has been low for about 2 months he's at 101 days now.
    Sex is great but I have to initiate quite a bit. He said he wants it to get normal. How long does it take.
    I told him I don't think you even know what's normal. Hmmm..
     
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  2. Mar 15, 2016 #2
    TheWife

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    Good question. But, What is normal? I have asked this question to myself many times.

    I had the thought that hubby should be chomping at the bit now that he is not fapping. No such luck. Seems like once a week/fortnight is our new normal. Better than it was (a lot better) but from my perspective, less than I want.

    i say start negotiations. Lay out what you want and try come up with a compromise.
     
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  3. Mar 15, 2016 #3
    Rav70

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    We are both fine with the frequency he just wants to know when he will start thinking about it more and getting those tingly feelings more often.
    And like I said I'm curious if he even knows what his true baseline is!
     
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  4. Mar 15, 2016 #4
    longjohntom

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    It's a flatline they pass anywhere from a few days to some weeks. After the flatline he'll pounce you LOL. Don't worry its not permanent.

    Best regards,
    LongJohn Von HugenDong Tom
     
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  5. Mar 15, 2016 #5
    Rav70

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    I guess since he was pretty bad on PMO it's lasting longer.
    I'm ready for pouncing!
     
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