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Learnt a HUGE lesson!!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Gilbert, Jun 18, 2015.

  1. Gilbert

    Gilbert Fapstronaut

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    So I relapsed just recently, and browsed for pornography on my mobile, and soon after I'd finished I tried to leave the webpage but was met with a rather horrifying pop-up saying something alone the lines of:

    'Police warning, security4breach, audio and visual recording in progress, your internet has been blocked for viewing of banned pornography...' (of which I'd seen no such thing)

    ...then it went on about violation of internet use act 215 this and that and that I needed to pay £100 Ukash or PaySafeCash and get a code and whatever I did these three popups kept looping and I was nearly in tears thinking I was going to be jailed or some shit.

    So then I decided to ring the non-emergency police and I explained my predicament and he assured me and calmed me down and explained that it was a clear act of fraud and to not pay them anything and I gave them my details and explained what the looping internet window things were saying and he gave me a reference number for Action Fraud or something who I need to ring tomorrow and they're basically going to try and crack down on whoever this is using scare tactics to get people to pay the 100 pounds. I then was able to remove the popups through my internet settings and deleting all form data/location access/cookies/history/cache (which I usually do anyway after a relapse truthfully) and this did the trick. I also ran AntiVirus AVG on my phone which showed up clean thankfully, so it looks like my phone and my good-law-abiding-citizen status are safe haha.

    But what did I learn from this? Well in my teary-eyed panic I'm now pretty much shocked, mortified, and terrified to look at pornography ever again because that shit had me completely rattled. It's disgusting, and I know it must've been from the porn site I was viewing.

    I'm really ashamed that I relapsed - I was hoping to make it to at least two weeks this time round with how much I've got going on in this time period, but this incident has taught me a bloody lesson about internet safety. Not to mention embarassment of ringing the police and having to admit what I'd done, plus they took my details and that. But I was assured everything was confidential and that my parents wouldn't be informed etcetc which is something.

    So that's my testimony for this evening. I just had to share that because truthfully it really upset and shamed me - pornography harms your brain, your emotional state, and your computer/phone.

    Has anyone ever experienced anything similar?
     
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  2. Yes this has happened to me. The fraudsters capitalize on that guilty feeling you already feel for watching porn, and use it to get some money. I've had friends who actually paid, and there computer was still frozen. Better to avoid this kind of thing all together. All kinds of pornography are equally shameful, if you think about it. There is no good pornography and bad pornography.
     
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  3. Gilbert

    Gilbert Fapstronaut

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    I was actually thinking that I would be willing to pay it, but in hindsight it seems obviously to be scam now - I'd just never seen anything like it before and panicked and yes, they got to my already guilty and shameful state of mind. Shame about your friends who paid wow D:
     
  4. Buzzltyr

    Buzzltyr Fapstronaut

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    Nothing like a good scare to keep you on the straight and true path! ;-)
     
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  5. Powerof3

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    That happened to me once. I panicked at first and then realized that the police would just show up at your door if you did something wrong. I just disconnected the internet and reinstalled the operating system.
     
  6. JustADude

    JustADude Fapstronaut

    Those scams (the ones with the reoccurring popups) almost always take advantage of a security flaw in your browser software. You don't need to worry about them. They most likely don't have your personal information and they can most likely do zero damage to you personally (other than give you a headache trying to get the popups to go away). The popups get onto your browser through a website script that is normally embedded into one of those shady porn advertisement websites that popup every time you visit a porn site.

    So... if you see that sort of thing again, blow it off. Most likely, the main porn site is probably actively trying to block advertisers who allow that kind of nefarious scripting.

    I kept writing "most likely" because, it is possible for someone to either hack the website server and steal your personal info (if you have an account with them and a registered credit card) or, more likely, hack into your personal computer/phone. However, if they had hacked into your personal computer, the website server, or your phone, they would probably not use internet browser popups to inform you of their plot to extort your money.

    And finally, if they had indeed stolen enough information to expose your behavior to the rest of the world, there is very little the police can do to help you, since, most people running these types of scams have done enough to make finding them too difficult for your local municipality. Normally, these scams originate from other countries where that country's legal system doesn't have time to do anything about petty criminals. The problem with running a scam like that in the United States or the UK or other similar countries is that it is extremely difficult to access the cash you extorted from an individual without the government being able to trace the cash back to someone they can throw into prison. Running the scam scripts is easy, getting the cash is extremely difficult. But... in Nigeria, pulling off the scam is much easier (sorry to single out Nigeria, there are many other countries where this type of illicit behavior is running rampant).
     
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