learn from past mistakes, don't beat your self up for them.

for example I learned If I do something that is in my head, and act it out. but feel bad about it. the next time I want to do something, I think, if that last thing made me feel bad, why would I not feel bad for doing this? (talking about gay activities) I have never even touched a man, only in my head, in my bedroom, not in real life, that is grose to me in real life. though I don't judge others. so if I don't like one thing, I will make sure not to set my self up to feel worse. and learn, I don't like something, and leave it at that. I don't like it. so I have to move on all ready. and is it really a mistake? or just learning about your self? who you are .

 

or learning about me. I am to hard on my self. learning is learning.