11 Days check-in.. This gets harder and harder, but I'm still resisting. Any tips to stay distracted?
Breathe pray stand up change direction put your focus on something else anything else doesn't matter what it is focus on that take a look at your hand who controls it why God give me this thing what am I here for do 10 push-ups do do kegel exercises read something climb something anything is better than doing nothing and something will get you away from that thing and don't forget God is watching
Today is day 123 yesterday was a most awesome day we got together with our son it was a perfect day we planted seeds to help him on his journey towards his relationship with God and we're hoping that will turn him around he's a prodigal drugs were his choice. We're hoping he's going to turn his Direction very soon. Me and my wife are studying are intimacy issues and we were very honest with each other with what we're doing and I didn't realize the depth of her pain do to my objectifying her for many years. She basically turned off her ability to have pleasure with sex, that is now going to become my new mission just to make sure that she is ready and then I do everything possible to make sure that her pleasure is always going to be first and mine will always be last. That should be a big testimony anyone here that thinks that it can't be done it can be done it must be done it will be done it's not only the right thing it's the only thing I'm doing this with in a relationship and she's doing along side me and she is gorgeous so don't think for one second that relapsing is even worth it there is no way on this Earth that I would want to start over again. I would rather use Icy Hot on my balls and hit with a ping pong paddle then start over again God knows God sees and God does God bless everyone have a blessed day I'm going to be here awhile might as well enjoy The View
It looks as though your wife Joe is wanting to take a break from sex which is good my wife needs the same thing
wet dreams is no relapse but from my experience, it means there's still lust temptations running through our heads and means we're not fully recovered so keep going!
That is nothing short of "Superhuman" God can provide you the will and grace to make it happen!!!! Noon Check in day 123 You got to give us a few tips to get past those numbers let's lay it on the line Give It up could you do a tip of the day? Amazing......please
thankyou friend. I wonder if human being can be ever free from lust temptations. Anyway you are right recover is a long street to run and not linear. I keep going thanks to your support and of the forum
It can also happen spontaneously happened a few times to me it really does just show that the plumbing is still working not necessarily that lust is still there