I stopped using porn around 3 1/2 months, after years of no hope! Quit alcohol and drugs a few years ago after years of no hope. I had trouble with debt, got rid of that when my life was overwhelmed with it, everything I own is free of it . I eat a little too much, and stay up too late are my two undesirables now. I have been blessed in my life with mentors appearing whether thru reading, groups, sick and tired, gods grace! Also this site lead me to another site that pulled trigger on my porn, and another site to help me with others. There is hope. I very much know there is hope no matter how u failed. Been a pro at failure, from it found faith and hope