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Language and Fantasy Issues

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Den, Nov 1, 2016.

  1. Nov 1, 2016 #1
    Den

    Den Fapstronaut

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    I am still dealing with not conning myself into looking at P-substitutes, but I have a related issue. When my wife and I am together, I find myself beginning to think in terms of slang language and sometimes thinking of us engaging in things which while not kinky/sinful, my wife would have problems with. I find these arousing on one hand, but also they seem to cause me guilt and I quickly lose my arousal. I like to hear others opinions on whether to engage in these activities?
     
    Den, Nov 1, 2016
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  2. Nov 12, 2016 #2
    ComeAgain?

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    This is a tricky one. I feel like I may have had a similar experience with my wife. My wife and I have completely different sexual needs. She could have missionary sex all day and never complain. I, on the other hand like the kinky stuff. We didn't talk about it for years but it just built up into a larger problem.

    We weren't able to fix things until we sat down and talked about it. It's difficult at first but trust me, it's a lot easier than both of you being unhappy or arguing. In the end, we both found a comfortable middle-ground. My wife will agree to do more things that I like and I will respect her decision and not let it destroy our relationship.

    It's all about compromise.

    -CA
     
    ComeAgain?, Nov 12, 2016
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