Journey of an 14 year old.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by DAMN., Jan 23, 2019.

  1. Tao Jones

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    How do you mean? Far too lenient, you think?

    I have found that eliminating P is essential and often leads to serious reductions in MO, especially in those with less of a history using PMO as their "drug of choice." So, if no PMO seems a bridge too far, focusing on no P for a period of time can be a more achievable goal, with the understanding that the ultimate long-term goal is no PMO. Hope that helps clarify why I advised as I did.
     
  2. Clean Willy

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    Masturbating every two or three days is far too lenient, yes. This is within the period of the chaser effect. If you advise that such a frequency is acceptable as a starting point, it will be very difficult for a teenage boy to get beyond that.

    Personally, I don't agree in the effectiveness of gradual reduction. Also, bear in mind that masturbation and orgasm is "fake sex" and release a lot of dopamine in the brain. This endorses the synaptic pathways in the brain, especially if the individual fantasises about having sex while they masturbate. In effect, they run their own porn scenario in their brain! Think again.
     
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  3. DAMN.

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    Yeah I have to agree I experienced that yesterday and today I masturbated after day 3 and feel uncomfortable with people I'm kinda having a light social anxiety right now. It's bad. I think I be better off if I quit mastubation too. My day is not that good. I'm in a city right now and I feel like really uncomfortable :( but still thanks for the tips
     
  4. Why do you keep relapsing? How do you expect to improve? You need to build willpower. I know its hard but the reality is you can improve.
     
  5. DAMN.

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    Basically I deleted all images that could lead to relapsing. I really want to do it because I don't want to fee like shit for 24 hours or more.
     
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  6. DAMN.

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    Almost relapsed?! Edging?!
    So today i have almost jizzed. But i could control myself and stopped it! But i think it was egding so yeah i dont know if i relpsed
     
  7. Troels. L

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    I think due to your very young age, you'll eventually become a very charismatic person. I really believe that. You may find yourself a lot ahead of your peers soon haha :D
     
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  8. DAMN.

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    Thanks
     
  9. bfdet

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    I've posted on this forum several times about edging, but here it is again:

    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !

    Quit kidding yourself that edging is not a relapse: it is. And while you are at it, quit kidding yourself that you "could control it" and "stopped it". Whether or not you O'd after edging, the edging is destructive and damaging. It really doesn't matter that you may have stopped before O. The edging does the damage. Stop it !

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  10. Hero:HOPE

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    Keep that positivity young Hero ;)
     
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  11. DAMN.

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    Oh ok thanks, but still i didn't wasted my semen?! I'm kinda confused but I'm gonna reset my counter tomorrow
     
  12. AlexWillDoIt

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    16 days after daily PMOing is awesome! Don’t see it as a fail, but as a possibility. Let me explain: if you can stop for 16 days, the next time try to go without PMO for 17-18-19. Just shows your that it is your choice, you decide! Falling just teaches us to stand up and try again!
     
  13. badsha

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    hi guys.all the best for your endeavour to reinvent yourself.
     
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  14. bfdet

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    The harm of Edging isn't about "wasting semen", its about the physical and mental damage edging causes. Perhaps you can re-read the information in the link above for further information.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  15. DAMN.

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    Yeah I stopped it
     
  16. 7evenreasons

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    this feels like hell im 15 turning 16 next year. my testosterone levels are peak asf, and this is a like a fight for my life
     
  17. bfdet

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    Good decision ! Now go make more good decisions !

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     

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