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Is this a flatline? pls

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by teejaysmart, Sep 7, 2017.

  1. teejaysmart

    teejaysmart Fapstronaut

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    hello guys. i need some experienced advise here. i am in a reboot currently. Almost every night i have semi hardwood but very hardwood sometimes. i tried sex with partner 2 days ago and i came when i wanted to which means it lasted as long as i wanted and we were both happy. But last night we tried sex again but can hardly get it up. i did manage to but it was semi hard erection and the sex lasted few mins. Can you guys tell what is wrong here pls?

    thanks
     
  2. Casper0n

    Casper0n Fapstronaut

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    Can you provide more information? How long are you into your reboot? Have you experienced a flatline before?
     
  3. teejaysmart

    teejaysmart Fapstronaut

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    thanks. i have been in reboot but relapased not with porn(stopped watching porn since May 2017).But i started reboot again 15th Aug 2017 till now. And yes i wld say i have experienced flatline before by not having interest in sex . thank you
     
  4. Casper0n

    Casper0n Fapstronaut

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    If you have been P free since May 2017, have you succumbed to P subs? P fantasy while M? If so, you should try to cut that out as well.

    If you have only been hard rebooting since Aug 15th, that's not too long of a time frame. Give it more time.
     
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  5. teejaysmart

    teejaysmart Fapstronaut

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    You are right. i did not watch P but had phone sex once, and dirty chats which i have since stopped since Aug 15th.
    I also read an article about dopamine level and mind fantasy about sex (which i still do).The article says addiction to sex fantasy is a result of low dopamine. Whats your take on this? thanks
     
    Last edited: Sep 7, 2017
  6. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    You need more time to heal
     
  7. teejaysmart

    teejaysmart Fapstronaut

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    Yea bro. ur absolutely spot on .But at times u feel the pressure especially when u have a partner who understands the situation and knows i use to be very good in bed. The pressure is there to be honestly
     
  8. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    You can still pleasure her in other ways.
     
  9. teejaysmart

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    Thank you for the advice
     

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