Is it a good idea to get a relationship when just starting a reboot

First, don’t think about rushing into a relationship after a couple dates. Come on dude you don’t even know her or how she’ll be months from now. Maybe put her in ur rotation but bro watch ur damn emotions. But yea fixing ur brain to be attracted to real life and not porn is a good idea it’s like not only running from the cat but running toward the cheese as well. Hopefully u don’t get Ed issues but yea building real tings is a good idea if it happens.

 

What is the prognosis for a married couple? I'm sorry, I don't understand any of this. What would having sex do to thwart recovery?

 

Not having sex is helpful when a guy gets too desensitized or if you physically damaged ur muscles from deathgrip or like prone masturbation which is horrible and the dick has to heal which takes time. Usually sex with an actual person helps the process not hurt it. But yea if you’re married obvies you gotta sex your wife.

 

It is only a bad idea if it makes you slip and you break up with her soon. But you can’t know that now. I would tell her that you want to wait for any intimacy and want to take it slow.
It will be harder for you not to PMO either way.

 

Sometimes I feel as if it makes things worse for him...generally it's when he Masterbates in his sleep, that same night. It's been hard to tell if he's doing it on purpose or not, but he swears it's unintentional. But then the days we don't, then the nights are quiet...like wth!?

What is "prone masterbation"?

 

Hmm well if he does it in his sleep like after sex, then try cuddling so his hands won’t go there...that’s if it’s truly unintentional. Does he have a problem with porn or Ed? Or do u just not like that he’s masturbating? Prone masturbation is when guys basically hump the bed. It has horrible consequences.

 

No ed...but it's not like were at it daily. More like every 3days. I...had...no...idea...PM was a thing!?! That could be though for complaints I've witnessed from him. Never thought of that!!

 

Also, no we don't believe masterbation/O is intended in a marriage apart from the spouse. I have never MO except for these last couple weeks to see what he is so addicted to...except I thought of no one. I stopped because I had no desire to make love to him, so it seemed like I was cheating on him or lying/betraying him.
I am Christian so I value sex as a conversation/act of love and pleasure sensor meant to keep both people going back to the one person for pleasure. MO prevents that and naturally fighting can't be resolved if we all just loving overselves...that's not marriage. Not how God intended. He agrees he doesn't want me doing that...it takes away his confidence or provoke him in some strange jealous way. Idk, but were in agreement there to abstain from that.