Hey all, So, I follow a local marriage guru who has created a lot of great content. I really enjoy most (but not all) of his stuff. He recently launched a project based off a facebook group and youtube page called "rethinking porn addiction". I just watched their first live chat that is going to be the cornerstone of the group's format, and while it was good in many respects, I felt like it was heavily geared towards the concepts of "shame does more damage than porn use", "it's just normal", "the word addiction is overused", etc. etc. I worry that it's all to easy for groups like this to get caught in a feedback loop where people whose experiences are validated participate, comment, like and share, while people who have different experiences that are undermined just drift away. But on the other side there is so much potential for a project like this to do a lot of good! So I thought I'd call on this group, especially SOs with some experience dealing with their partners PA and PMO, to consider joining in the conversation and perhaps pushing back if the narrative doesn't match up with your experiences. I know that I have learned so much in this section of the forum, so if you're up to it I'd like to invite everybody to come participate and bring your voice to help other people. Here are the links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/rethinkingporn Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI3Ag2DxPotNJgSiTr-WX-Q
