i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

But you are not understanding me. I never said a single world about goverment making things illegal or people having their choice taken away from them. On the contrary, it is important that we make our own choices.

What I was trying to explain is what drives people to make those choices in the first place: emotional void and disconnection from who they are, and what are the consequences of the addictive choices: ie our pain and ill health. Most people will learn the lesson that some things are simply bad for them in all shapes and forms as they cause them suffering. The longer we insist on acting out, the longer we hurt internally.

It takes people diferent amount of time and diferent doses of pain to wake up and try to turn around but as we both know from experience it is tricky. Emotional pain of the soul and heart can not be numbed by any of those things. One can gamble and have sex and smoke and drink left, right and centre but sooner or later, the void or unplesent emotions they are runing away from, will catch up with them. The internal pain will simply become too unbearable to ignore anymore.

In reality there are only 2 paths any human can take in life. One of runing away from their emotions that leads to internal pain and one of integration with who we are internally that leads to true peace and tranquility and hapiness with who we are. By defoult if you are not on one you are on the other. I do not know how to explain this any better.

 

Hey Hope, it sounds very clear to me

 

Hello, guys! I am thinking about it too. I haven't had sex for 6 months, and I have some problems with girls. Do you think it is a good idea? I am going to use some escort service like the one from http://london.worldescortmap.com website. What are the pros and cons of them?

 

So in the end you didn't go through with it. If you do decide sometime in the future to sleep with a hooker, please use a condom and be safe. I've never paid for sex, so I can say one way or the other about its addictive risk. I also never had a problem with getting sex, so I don't want to minimize what you're going through. Either way, again, please be safe and ensure it's consensual. Good Luck!

 

WAIT FIND LOVE

 

LoL! I must say that I am against prostitution in general, and I have decided to not have sex with one. But I am tired of reading those things, it sounds to me a lot like "have faith, God will take care of that".
Wait find love?

I believe each year less and less in that BS, there is no random love or a random girl that you will meet and fall in love with(and even if there is one, imagine meeting her in your 50s, nice picture ah?). Basically you decide who do you want to have near you and who do you feel attracted the most. There are certain feelings that may be out of rationalization, but you cannot predict nor search those.
I never had sex with a girl in 29 years of life, and if one day I will decide that it is time to try an experience, maybe not with a prostitute but with a bar hookup or anything else, you have no right to judge me or to tell me or other people what they should do. Wait for love is as stupid as waiting a bus beside a bus stop in disuse(believe me, I have tried that in the last years), it will never arrive and you will stand there for eternity waiting for just an idea and nothing more(you are Waiting for Godot).
Do you know why I never had a girlfriend? It was because I stopped from searching one years ago, and I even rejected the few girls that tried with me. But I had only few chances while other friends that I know met a lot of interested girls. You know why? because of the beauty, because of the money, because of the confidence, and the list goes on. Experience is important aswell, IMO girls can feel the lack of experience(and I do not mean sex, I mean approaching girls, talk, make out etc.), so until you have no experience and find some courage to try, nothing will ever happen.
And let's talk about PMO, when you are using that shit, you have no impulse to find a girl because YOU DO NOT NEED ONE. A girl is not only sex, a girl is much more than that, but when your sex drive is = to zero because you are beating your meat alone, you will have almost 0 pushes to find a girl or even risk an approach, which will eventually work as experience.

@recoome you did a good choise by avoiding a prostitute, if you want to feel what sex is like, start to learn more about girls. Get out of your comfort zone and learn how to approach, how to get a date from a girl. Conquest that satisfaction of getting a girl to like you, instead of sharing that intimate moment with a stranger who only gives a shit about your money and nothing more. And please do not "wait" for love, I do not believe in that thing anymore.

 

Best to meet someone

 

Take it from the people with experience (and I am unfortunately one of them) - it is not worth it, even to satisfy a curiosity. It is never worth it.