Damn reddit. So much good and so much bad. Like playing with fire. There are adjustments he can make in the settings if he's interested. My SO changed it to reflect he is not over 18 even though he is, to at least prevent NSFW threads popping up. It didn't wean out everything but got rid of a lot of the major stuff that he considered a problem. He has also been able to block certain threads that he knows are a slippery slope for him. That's great news! Good for both of you! You for the courage to bring it up and him for giving change a shot. It's good to be on your guard. You want to protect yourself from getting your heart stomped on. At the same time, your optimism and encouragement will help your partner see the benefits of tempering his porn usage. You are both better off without it. I wish you guys the best!