Im scared

all i can say is RELAX! you put yourself way too much under preassure. i bet your penis is working fine!

 

i'm proud of you! be proud of yourself! i had severe problems with PE, i guess i still have it but i don't weight it so much anymore as i used to. and what helped me is to talk openly with my partner and friedns about it. People i'm close. it came something like a click in my brain where i realized i'm not the only one that got this problem and my anxiety vanished.
It's kinda like.. Accept it as a part of you and it will disappear from alone enjoy the moment in "NOW" try not to think to much about the past. Thats just an illusion of your thinking and the future is not written yet

 

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After that things got complicated with her and we separated a bit. I feel bad because I fell in love with her, but for her it was just a game.
I was slightly depressed and relapsed after 4 months of nofap. Twice the same day.
4 days after we met again...I got hard, but lost erection after 2-3 min
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1) don't feel bad that you fall in love in someone
2) You are human and it's totaly normal that you want to do yourself a small favor after you feel depressed. When done, acknowledge it and stop. You lost nothing because of that!
3) Mate, as i read out. you have fallen in love but you know she doesn't have the exact feelings for you or for her it's just a game... it's normal that your brain subconsciously blocks you because of that. it doesn't have to be neccesarly PIED. this can be normal human behavior. You felt depressed and hurt and now you are scared because she acts more distant thats emotionaly alot to handle.

You said it already you had good sex. this is still the case if you ask me it's not a faping problem more of an emotional or anxiaty
Sorry for my bad english.

Dude, you will do great i can feel that!

 

Actually, you can always talk and be open and if she's half the person you hope she would be she will listen . i think thats the strongest and maybe the most effective way to cure things.
I mentioned before that i have PE.. and i had different other problems carring in me which i just kept for myself.
Let me tell you a story that kinda changed alot.

I had a GF and well... we broke up 3 months ago. with the PE i had severe Performance anxiety. and i have put myself so much under preassure that i also totaly ruined it for both of us. During the time we still were togethere. I went to a weekend trip with some friends. In the car ride back home which was like 4 hours i was talking with the guys about shits and gigs.
they weren't even my closest friends. i know them for long time now but we don't have the connection that i would tell them deep intimate secrets. Suddenly i started the convo "guys i have a problem i want to talk about it... i have that girl i love but i got PE and severe performance anxiaty... in bed i can't last long" out of nowhere this one guy from which i tought he would have the stamina/endurance of a demigod said "yeah me too..." that was the moment where i realized that like every second or third man out there got PE.. After that "yeah me too.." my Anxiaty was vanished away and my endurance has trippeld. Or well lets say i was more sensitive to feel when i'm close to come and was able to pull it out to chill and continue after few seconds and i way able to enjoy everything around it. i was just present.

Unfortunatlly it was to late for us :-/ but for next time i know it better

So what i want to point out. Being open and saying out loud what concerns you can help extremly.

I had a date last week with i was on day 32 or 34 of no PM i told her straight away "look girl i'm on a thing where i haven't touched my Dick for 34 days... it might happen that we need a second round pretty quick..." i had probably the best sex of my life. because i didn't had to keep a secret and put myself under preassure.

who knows.. maybe she says something like "look, you are not the first with this issues, no worries" (no warranty on that!!)

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My friend, fortune favors the bold!