I'm not sure this is where I'm suppose to post about this but here goes

Ok. I've been on porn for 23ish years. I was married at one point (for 5 years) and performed just fine during most of the marriage. Toward the end I started having problems (I was also using meth at the time).

After the marriage I had quite a few sexual experiences, all were good, until I was in a long term relationship. Then, I had issues finishing without having to give myself a helping hand.

Recently (within the past 5 years) I've had sex and orgasm from sex. Then I went celibate (meaning no sex with people just my hand using porn). Now, I'm coming off porn for good, I want nothing to do with it and have stayed away from it for 27 days so far.

I just had a sexual encounter over the weekend. I was very turned on inside, marginally on the outside (was pretty full, probably about 80%) but could not finish without giving myself a helping hand...twice.

My question is: Is it going to get any better or is this the best I can hope for?

I should probably also mention that when I was viewing pornography I was pretty hard, and if I ran into those problems with it I would just take a few days off and be fine again.