I'm convinced that PMO turns you into a cuck

Being a virgin myself, that's exactly what I'm afraid of, and its what has pushed me to PMO in the past especially to the cuckold genre. It does worry me greatly that I could be with a beautiful woman whose crazy for me and I for her and I can't get it up or satisfy her. That's where the thoughts come into being cuckolded as you feel everyone gets "what they want" out of it but it never would work that way and its crazy to think so. A long streak and successful reboot is exactly what we need and then this thing will become a thing of the past.

 

Be careful not to put too much on your plate because doing so will sound so hard to accomplish. You need some dating advice and some experience, you need to start nofap, sure, but take it easy.
Start with no pmo and then after a good 100 days +, start focusing on dating aspects.

In any case, if you ONLY do nofap, you’ll still be lacking the intel and experience regarding girls BUT you’ll pe porn free ! Which, as you yourself started to notice, can be quite a game changer.

Go for it and keep us posted ! We’ll cheer you on your way to victory!

 

You are correct. PMO addiction makes you weak.

 

I've been into femdom porn since I was a teenager. I drifted into cuckold porn 4 years ago & that eventually led to a major reevaluation.
I'm disgusted with myself for watching that stuff. Shameful

 

I’m new here the prob I’ve been. Into porn and masterbation since 13 years old I went from vanilla then to really freaky ones fendom was one of them but after I jacked off to cuck porn and enjoyed it which in the heat if in the moment when I jack off I tend to watch anything to just to get off it really made me lurch afterwards I was about to vomit I felt really disgusted with myself personally and had sucicide thoughts I have never been into this cuck shit or fendom anything like this it really fking sucks because I could never stomache the thought of my wife or girlfriend to have sex with other men or woman it would shatter my heart going to start NoFap today because I realize this has become a big fking problem for me and it’s ruining my life if anyone has tips for this sort of bing much appreciated I want rid of these cuck thoughts badly?

 

Wow, i totally agree.
I actually just started watching cuckold porn and 3some porn before i started on nofap journey. I literally wouldn’t have been into that kind of porn for more than 10 days, but here comes the tricky part, during my current 70 days NoFap journey i have few distractions none of them were anything related to normal porn that i was addicted to for 7-8 years but was from 10 days of 3some or cuckolding pronography pics/videos/stories,etc.
My journey is going great and i wish to overcome my addiction but somehow these cuckolding and 3some thoughts refuse to leave. I dont get any flashback of any other video or photos i viewed all these years but only of this particular category that i was into not more than 10 days

 

Unfortunately the tendency is to end up becoming a cuckold, if you watch several guys doing things you always wanted you end up having a negative view about yourself, it's like you're crap for never achieving your dream and always content with just the success of others, you start to hate yourself and the result is that.

 

Theres not point in being with someone iff you can't fill some need, what I can't stand about "the life style" is that these people claim to "love" eachother, when in reality these couples are just a sick joke. I hate myself for viewing that type of porn. The ironic thing is cuckold fetishism is rooted in ones own self hatred.

 

Find God, realize you have been blinded by sin and that when you accept Jesus Christ into your life, you are brought forth from death, into new life. I'd suggest refocusing your mind and eyes towards God, and not on things that take your eyes away from Him.

 

Excuse me? Is this allowed? Imposing such beliefs on others? I guess it is ok as someone else could offer some kind of advice assertively.

Like find understanding. Realize you have been confused and accept a greater knowledge into your mind. Open to the light of understanding and be set free.

 

Well, for some it may help and even if it's only one, that's ok.
The world is full of different beliefs and methods.