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I'm a Virgin

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Potato93, Mar 6, 2017.

  1. Potato93

    Potato93 Fapstronaut

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  2. Not sure what you are trying to state with the video, but I'm a 20 year old virgin as I'm really not ashamed of it. In fact, the reason I am a 20 year old virgin is because I never put in any effort. I let my pornography and masturbation addiction take control of me and it basically hindered my ability to grow up as a normal teenager. I honestly feel no need to ever say that I'm a virgin and I never feel the need to bring it up in conversation. I like to think I'm one of the lucky ones because people don't automatically assume I'm a virgin. They all think I've got a side chick that I keep secret :p. Anyway I have a long way to go but I'm in no hurry to lose it. I want to build myself up into who I want to be. Women will naturally fall into place that want to be there.
     
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  3. skeptical

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  4. Potato93

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    The video holds a question regarding looks. If there was a average dude doing it I suspect it would have the same impact. If you dont bring up virginity into the table and you say that people dont actually assume you're a virgin, how do you know about this? They said it to you?

    I'm impressed over how people are visual based when judging if someone had sex or not. Maybe because everyone thinks that you need to be good looking to do the D? That sucks. :/
     
  5. Well in all honesty, when you are (potential triggers) browsing for porn, are you looking for average looking girls or the ones that look the best? It is in human nature to look for the most attractive mate we can possibly obtain. It's not something you can call selfish or biased. I honestly was not impressed at how visual based people are in the video because of this. Also, I consider myself average looking as well but from what I have heard I do stand out for some reason.

    As for how I found out, there was this one gay dude I was talking to one time (he's a friend of mine and we were just hanging out). He casually asked me if I am into hooking up in college but I stated that I'm looking for something long term. He then asked if I was a virgin innocently and I said yes. He was completely shocked. He basically said, you're being joking right? He even made a remark that said I find it hard to believe how you don't have a woman with you.

    Even after these comments I still think that I'm not that attractive and women would not give me the light of day. This is due to years of child abuse and extremely low self-esteem (which I'm trying change each day and improve myself - starting with removing PMO). It all comes down to how you view yourself as a person and how happy you are as an individual. If you are truly disgusted with who you are deep down (as I was for most of my life), every time you look in the mirror you will see what you feel deep down. Maybe I'm blessed with looking slightly above average...that doesn't mean I'm doing well with girls because I've had so much insecurity and low confidence in my life that most of my romantic interests were girls making the first move.

    PS. The guy in the video I guess is somewhat attractive, I don't know I'm not gay, but the fact that when people said that they immediately regarded him as creepy shows that a lot of attraction comes to the type of person you project.
     
  6. Potato93

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    I'm totally with you bro. I KNOW exactly how that feels. I wasnt abused as a child, but I suffered A LOT of bullying from my early high school years. That kinda of had a impact in my confidence long term. My fear of rejection got so strong that when I used to go to parties in high school I never talked to girls because of such fear.

    Now I'm graduating and I'm a new person, college friends and work helped me a lot. I'm a living proof that these bad experiences can be indeed traumatic but Time and Hard Work can put you out in it. We all can still become the best of ourselves each day in life.

    Cheers mate. ;)
     
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  7. Mankrik

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    Still a virgin in no rush to lose it... Think having sex with someone you actually love for your first time is the best way to go. My goal has been to not masturbate until I have this experience, or even quitting fapping indefinitely.
     
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  8. IggyIshness

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    I lost my virginity in a wet dream
     
  9. Protagonist

    Protagonist Fapstronaut

    I am 16 and still a Virgin.:cool:
    Well, I had sex in games, so virtually i am not.
    But I think this video is fake, it was planned, as how can you hear the voices of the pedestrians or strangers so perfectly. this is only possible when they are wearing a mic.
     
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  10. Ugh thanks a lot. Now I want to watch the video.
    Hi Mark
     
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  11. I am 18 and not a virgin. I literally love having sex. I can have sex all day with all the females in the world.
     
  12. Protagonist

    Protagonist Fapstronaut

    Man you certainly are weird. If you have so much energy in you then you should probably start producing electricity for the world, bitch.
     
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  13. Potato93

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    The hate speech on this thread escalated quickly. XD
     
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  14. [​IMG]
    This is how I pictured your response

    Movie: The Room by Tommy Wiseau
     
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  15. bahahaha WHO IS THAT?
    Y u mad though?
     
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  17. LOL thank youuuu.
     
  18. It's one of those cult classic films that are so bad that it's good. Anyone who has seen in can instantly detect a quote because they movie is basically one giant one-liner script.
     
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  19. I'll have to check it out, thanks for the rec!
     
  20. Oh I'm not recommending it at all, in fact I wouldn't wish that on even my worst enemy.
     
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