If i see this or look at that, ive failed?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Szostak, Oct 26, 2016.

  1. Szostak

    Szostak Fapstronaut

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    Hello! Im on day 4 PMO. (I guess).
    But i Want To know if seeing/passing by a few Pictures or girls and breasts, or even looking ("cat walking on university") at Pretty girls on the Street will fail my streak?
    Do i Havr Only Not to get erected, or i cant look or see girls either? [Like i cant think "cool, this one is hot"(without fantasising avout sex)]
    Im on whatsapp groups with best Friends and school mates, so there are things i cant avoid (unless i quit whatsapp groups). (Its Not all day tho).
    Can anyone clear it up for me?
    Thanks! I appreciate if there are links to enlighten me!
     
  2. hji29

    hji29 Fapstronaut

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    Ultimatly you define what breaks your streak yourself, but i think as long as you avoid porn or porn substitutes thats fine. I think its healthy to seeing girls and getting erections as long as you dont use it as a substitute for porn.

    On day seven myself. Stay strong.
     
  3. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    Even if every girl in our world wore a burka, we could still find some glimpse of something that could excite us. The big battle takes place between our ears, we have to choose between an instant quick shot of pleasure, and a long lasting full joy. I enjoy seeing beauty, but I can't let myself turn it into an imaginary porn script, especially not when I have a real live loving partner at home.
     
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  4. TheRevenant

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    At first u may be better of reducing or even cutting it(Still depends on the person) but u can't continue living without looking at girls and thinking about them, I mean that's inevitable. After u get it under control, u're gonna get more sociable so u're gonna be around girls a lot more then don't be afraid of that. I still sometimes get glance on similar pictures but I'm so sure that I've got it under control so that doesn't bother me but I think I limited myself very much at the beginning and started getting used to seeing hot girls without thinking about porn or stuff, little by little. I used to be super shy around girls but now I'm someone else :).
    So the matter is if u have it under control or it is controlling u?
    Good luck.;)
     
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  5. Szostak

    Szostak Fapstronaut

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    Thanks guys!
    Yeee TheRevenant, i look at them and it doesnt trigger me anything evil on my Mind or down there. So i guess im fine. I thought this was supposed to be like total abstinence from these.
     
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