If I have sex during NoFap...

your lucky you can even have sex, i cant

 

I was a bit worried about this too so I asked an ai and the answer I got was very reasonable so I'd like to share it below.

"No, having an orgasm through sexual activities with a partner does not count as a relapse when it comes to overcoming porn addiction. The goal of quitting porn addiction is to break the cycle of compulsive and problematic use of pornography, and to develop a healthier and more balanced relationship with sexuality.

Engaging in healthy sexual activities with a partner can actually be an important part of this process, as it can help you to reconnect with your natural sexuality and to experience the pleasure and intimacy that comes with healthy sexual relationships.

However, it's important to note that everyone's journey is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. If you find that engaging in sexual activities with a partner triggers urges or cravings to view pornography, or if it interferes with your ability to maintain your porn-free lifestyle, you may need to reevaluate your approach and seek additional support or guidance."

I hope this answers your question.

 

I would only count it as a relapse if you paid the person (i.e. prostitute) to have sex with you.

If it was with a partner that you are in a relationship with or even a 1 night stand, then I would say not a relapse.