I want to Watch Porn NOW !!!

Take one 5 mins cold shower it helps...

 

You're not confident and your self-esteem is low, perhaps look into these problem and solve it, this gold-digger thing that you're doing is addictive, stop it as soon as possible. Meaningful relationship usually exist without money.
Perhaps stop being desperate, date the ones that loves you sincerely and that only, love is but an aspect of life, if you were not to get a love that's real, why even bother? Educate yourself and work out, increasing your value should be something auto, WITH OR WITHOUT woman. Love yourself for nobody will love you more than yourself will do.

Peace.

 

Oh boo hoo, no woman no confidence. Look, I'm not being mean here, it's just that you have a distorted perspective about life, it's not about sex and love and paradise. Live is about pursuing things beyond that, responsibilities, confidence and motivation should never come from the outside world, you should be generating them inside you, BY YOURSELF.

You came to look for a solution, I'll give you a solution, stop letting woman getting into your head, listen, NONE, and I mean absolutely NONE of the thing should come from a woman. The main reason you're not getting any girls is because you're not being what you are, you don't do things for yourself, you don't raise and fight for status just for the sake of it, and you don't want to improve if there's no woman. Stop doing everything just for women.

Being a man is more than hot chicks and sex, it's about responsibilities and how you lift your own world, so PERHAPS stop doubting, stop complaining and whining about how unfair life is, and as a wise man once said:" JUST DO IT!"

Peace.

 

Just tell me how old are you.

 

Right, buddy.
I'm gonna explain it one last time, and if you still fail to absorb what I am trying to say, I'm going to give up.

I'm a science student, so I'll put everything in science and fact.

Before we start, remember that humans today, are not much different than humans back when we're still trying to make fire with sticks and stones.

First, Mr. Coak and I had been giving you the answer that you want oh-so-much, the reason that you're not getting girls, is because of your mindset and status. Since ancient times we are surrounded by danger, man develop strong muscle in order to protect woman, and since there's no gym or healthy bulking diet back in the days, muscle is seen as good genetics, and thus, worth woman's while to take their gen and reproduce. Here's the reason to work out, a healthy and strong, reasonably muscular body, ATTRACTS woman, don't believe me? Let's take some examples from the famous MCU, Thor? Muscle, women go crazy for that guy's physique. Captain America? Muscle the actress can't even resist touching the guy's massive pec.

Second, there's two reasons to why you feel like a piece of shit that's not contributing anything :

Number 1 :
Because your status is low, since ancient time human on the higher status or dominance hierarchy receive shit tons of advantages, 1: getting the pussy that you want so much. 2: getting the best food. 3: The ability to decides people's life and death in a moment. (Side notes, the size of you, the amount of muscle you carry, are somewhat proportionate to your power, thus your status)
Number 2 :
Your porn addiction hacks your brain and is making you weak-minded. It takes your confidence and self-esteem away because deep down, we all knew that porn is fucked up and it causes us to be fucked up. Now take a look at this sweet little flow chart for you.
( Porn = fucked up -> You look at porn = you fucked up -> You can't control the fucked up amount of how you fucked up -> Feel like shit because you fucked up)

The LITERAL reason your self-esteem and confidence are close to the ground is that you're in low status and you don't know! A woman needs no man to please them, a woman needs a leader, someone that can protect them, someone that can guarantee them a good life, they are literally hard-wired to do so, it's in their brain. See if any woman wants to be with someone who holds lower value than them, that's the full reason you'd want to INCREASE your status.

I gave you 2 big reasons to improve yourself, because I can't tell if you're trying to evade our explanation or straight out dumb, so I won't waste too much time talking about science to someone who doesn't want to accept the truth.

Peace.

 

Status can mean a lot of thing, it's probably the most important aspect of one's life, it can be the ranking in your job, how tidy and how confident you project yourself, you can translate it into the so-called "Alphaness", though I think they are just a bunch of incel idea.

I'll give you this gentleman as an example

This guy is the literal embodiment of charisma and status. Is he handsome compared to another actor? No, he's not, but the confidence and status and how HIS world surrounds nothing but himself is the thing that makes him so attractive and charismatic, perhaps look up and watch more James Bond movies, maybe you'll benefit from it.

Peace.

 

Watch James Bond, it'll come to you.

 

It's all about self-compassion. Learn to take that love and those hugs and affection you want and give it to yourself. Once you learn that, you'll have enough confidence to attract all the women you'd like who will genuinely love you. Love to you brother!

 

Really...?!
Why do you think in very, very, very cold countrys they put the babys in cold water and then take they off?! To get immunity system, to get used to the envinorement...
If you take one good cold shower and then you clean yourself and get warm it is all good... I think the only problem is if you take one cold shower and then dont put yourself warm some good clouthes. I ussually use to do normal showers and then one small cold shower to dont get the body to hot, it is good to the skin...
In sports some persons after trainning do ice cold showers you know?!... to be strong and recover the body trainning, immunity system...?!
You will not get immunity system inside one cage and without sun.
They use ice showers in professional sport... the only carefull you need to have is after that when you out the shower you need to get really, really "warm clouthes" if you are stoped with low body temperature after one cold shower and no movement, that what we need to avoid nathing more. They use this one sports...
God bless you.

 

I would just add to the status discussion that confidence is indeed a big part of what is attractive to a woman, in addition to being physically well kept, but being too self centered, too focused on just your personal growth can impede your character. I think it’s important for a man to have a bigger dream than himself, for example, mine is my wife and property, two things I work on day in and day out to cultivate what God has given me, and which I dreamed of long before I had them. It could be a job or hobby or art or passion. And that will shape your character and develop you in turn, so really developing yourself personally and developing your passion go hand in hand. Just be ready to sacrifice yourself to what you’re passionate about, to another person you love. That quality of not being afraid to give of yourself, even spill your own blood for something or someone you love, really develops a man’s character. But for now it sounds like you should really be working on developing your own self assurance and strength