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I want a way out of loneliness

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by NotSoAverageJoe, Sep 19, 2017.

  1. Sep 19, 2017 #1
    NotSoAverageJoe

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    I'm so sick of being lonely. I barely see my friends or go out anymore, had to move home with my parents to save money. Haven't kissed a girl in over 2 years, never had sex.

    The porn addiction is getting better, still daily but I can walk away sooner and have found something new to deal with urges. EFT tapping. It worked earlier today so I'm gonna keep trying it.

    Problem now is I've been also emotionally eating, drinking as an escape, smoking weed and basically anything to escape.

    I had a job interview today that I really hope to get. Gonna try group classes at the gym, switching membership to the YMCA instead of my current gym which is farther away

    I honestly don't know how to be happy single and a virgin. If I get the job I want to get rid of my laptop

    So sick of the loneliness
     
    NotSoAverageJoe, Sep 19, 2017
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  2. Sep 19, 2017 #2
    HopeFaith

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    Go for constelation therapy, you need to reconnect back to your feelings rather than doing whatever you can to run away from them. This will help you to clear your addictions and would allow you to feel well in yourself . And when you feel well with yourself, you will feel well with other people too.

    If you do not know how to be happy single you would not know how to be happy in a relationship. Trust me. You just do not know how to be happy. This is what you need to learn and you learn this by reconnecting to who you are and establishing deeply loving relationship to yourself. It is all about clearing the emotional trush we carry with us and staying truthful to your soul.
     
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  3. Sep 20, 2017 #3
    HopeFaith

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    Lonlines is a state of mind, one can be lonley in a croud. Clearing it goes deeper than going out and doing stuff. Of course it does help to get out and have fun, but without conecting to our own soul and feelings one can still feel like they do not belong.
     
    HopeFaith, Sep 20, 2017
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